9 Things Your Deceased Pet Wants You To Know

9 Things Your Deceased Pet Wants You To Know

Things Your Deceased Pet Wants You To Know

This past year, my family suffered the loss of a friend and a loved one.

Our sweet dog, Mama.

A 65 pound German Shepherd mixed with a little bit of magic and who knows what, she entered our lives a short 4.5 years ago, at the age of about 2, as a rescue dog from a mechanic’s shop yard in Tijuana, Mexico.

and if rescue ever had a meaning, mama’s story into our lives is the most beautiful rescue story.

When she was found by the rescue organization, she was chained to a tiny outdoor doghouse, skin, and bones, and starving, but somehow nursing 5 chubby puppies.
She was heavily abused and lived in a makeshift mechanic’s shop yard, where she wore down her teeth chewing on and trying to gain sustenance from the nuts, bolts, and sheet metal that lay around her.

And yet, when the rescue organization cautiously approached this chained up, abused, and has-every-right-to-be-aggressive dog, she only had hugs, kisses, and love to offer – despite her treatment.

Mama Only Had Love To Give.

From that day forward, she was scooped up off the streets, along with those puppies, and brought into the home of a rescue worker. For 5 months, she was rehabilitated while her puppies were adopted, and she was given the personal care and attention she needed and deserved, before she was healthy and well enough to attend her first rescue event, in the parking lot of Pet Me Please, a local pet shop, in San Diego, California.

This is where I first laid eyes on her .  . . and fell in love. Without even asking my husband, I quickly made steps to fill out the paperwork to take her home and adopt her.

In just 3 days, she was ready to come home, and we met Mama again, this time with her rescuer, Jessica, at the Tijuana border crossing. She jumped right into our arms, our hearts, and our car.

At that moment – our lives and hers were forever changed.

We hiked together, we walked together, we cuddled together on the couch, and we took trips to the dog beach, and to local lakes, rivers, and streams, for Mama to partake in the activities she loved the most, outside of hugging and snuggling – fetching balls and swimming. Ideally, combined.

mama, like many rescue dogs, taught us what it truly meant to love unconditionally, with a full heart.

She always had a hug to give when you needed one, and even when you thought you didn’t. She knew when you did – and didn’t even wait to be asked most of the time.

She touched so many lives with her sweetness and unending love, but she did share one special bond, and that was with my husband, Tom.

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They Were Inseparable From Day One, Side By Side – Always.

Over the course of her time on this Earth, Mama traversed the entire spectrum, from fear to love, in a single lifetime.

From chained up, starving, and abused – to snuggling, hugging, and swimming – from fear, to love.

Mama’s physical existence in this lifetime ended. She died doing exactly what she loved with those she loved the most. In Mama’s last moments, she was hiking and took her last jump for a swim. Sadly, she fell on the way in and moments after the jump, she passed away, in my husband’s arms – with her heart full of joy and love.

With Mama’s passing, has come much reflection.

And today, I want to share with you the 9 things that Mama – and every pet – wants and wishes for their owners to know, after their Spirit crosses over.

9 Things Your Deceased Pet Wants You To Know

1. There’s Nothing That Could Have Been Done Differently

A Soul’s path is planned before they are born onto this Earth. This plan includes all possible exits from this world. And when the soul leaves this Earth, know that this exit was part of their Soul’s plan and a specific choice made by their soul.

There’s nothing you, or anyone, could have done differently to save them. The time at which your Pet’s Spirit leaves this world is no one’s doing, it’s no one’s fault.

When it’s the Soul’s time to exit their physical body, everything that can be done has already been done. Everything that needed to happen, did. Your pet wants you to know that there’s absolutely nothing you could have done differently, you did everything exactly right.

2. They Chose You As Their Parent(S)

Just as the Soul chooses exit paths and plans for their life, your pet also selected you as their parent.

Your dog, your cat, your bird – chose you, as the one who would make them feel the most loved and bring them the most comfort and joy while they were here. And you did.

Your pet wants you to know that you were and are the perfect parent.

3. They Understand Your Sadness, But Would Rather See You Happy

As a Spirit now, your pet knows that sadness is part of the grieving process, but they wished it wasn’t.

Remember how, when they were alive, they would snuggle up next to you, sitting by your side (or on top of you), whenever you were feeling sad or feeling bad? They wanted to make you feel better *just like you thought* and they wished they could do something to make you happy, then.  And they still do, even now, they don’t want their exit to have brought pain, in fact, no one does. But they understand that this is part of the process.

They want you to remember the happy, love-filled, and joyous times you spent together, and look back upon them with gratitude and thanks. They believe the time you spent together was a cherished gift and that this gift is a call for celebration – and smiles.

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4. They Know You Loved Them And Hope You Know They Loved You Back

Your pet doesn’t want you to wonder if they knew how much you loved them, they do.

It’s said that grief is the final gift of love given from one to another, and the depth of that grief is a measure of the strength of the love between the bond.

They know how deeply you loved them, and they want you to know that they loved you back in equal measure (if not more!).

5. They’re Still Right By Your Side

You aren’t alone. They aren’t gone forever – they’re still right by your side.  And they always will be, if you let them. The Spirit World exists right alongside our physical world, and while your pet may no longer be occupying their physical body, they’re still with you in Spirit.

And remember, that’s who you loved in the first place. You loved their mannerisms, their attitude, and their personality – all elements of their Spirit. You didn’t love them for their fur, or their one standing straight up an ear, or their snaggle teeth (ok, maybe you did a little). Mostly, you loved them for who they were as a Spirit, and that Spirit still exists right beside you.

After they pass on, your pet wants you to know that they still cuddle up next to you, still join you on the couch, and still want to be with you, if you want that too.

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11 thoughts on “9 Things Your Deceased Pet Wants You To Know”

  1. You did the best you could for Dixie! you didn’t know she was that sick! but your intuition knew there was something not right! Dixie did her best to come through for you everytime,she didn’t want to disappoint her family,and she wasn’t ready to say good bye just yet just as you weren’t! obviously it was the last straw for her and she couldn’t hold on any more! she knows you love her! and I guess she was just checking in on you knowing that you had Willow to help with your mourning she thought she could go,but you will still see her in your dreams! we had to put to sleep our little girl Zorra on the 7th October, she had heart problems and her dimentia was getting worse, it is such a difficult thing to do, we stayed with her till the end crying our eyes out! the vet put her in a lined calico bag, my husband carried her out like a baby, we brought her home and burried her near a pink flowering calistimon tree! we thought that was fit for her, she would be 16 years next Feb! but we had to do what was right for our little girl! I did dream of her the first night as I dreamt of my dad who is also deceased! I feel that was her way of telling us she is okay! they are a family member to all of us! why is it any different thaen mourning for a human being!

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