Dating a girl with a big heart but a complicated mind is no less than a trip to Adventure Island. You have surprises waiting at each step, and most of the time, these surprises are the good kind of surprises. Being with a girl with a big heart is always an experience to remember.
Just when you think you have figured her out, a new surprise is thrown your way taking you back. If you ever set on this roller coaster here’s how the ride would be different.
8 Ways The Girl With a Big Heart but Complicated Mind Loves Differently
1. She keeps it simple
When a girl with a big heart loves someone she does it with all her heart, there is nothing in-between. There isn’t confusion or doubt, she is 100 percent sure about her decision.
Dramas are directly proportional to doubts thus here you save a lot of drama. Though their minds are complex, they like their life simplified
2. She is an over-thinker
I don’t know if this should worry or excite you but truth be told, she is an over-thinker. She has 100s of imaginary scenarios playing in her head (in some you even cheat or die). Sometimes this makes situations more difficult than they should be but well this is how she is.
3. Your efforts never go unseen
Your small act of love and compassion, they never fail to appreciate you. Be it picking her up for a date, calling to just check on her how she is doing, or playing with her hair while listening to her stories, she notices everything and appreciates it.
4. She will challenge and confront you
A girl with a big heart loves differently because she isn’t someone who would keep things to themselves and let it turn your relationship toxic. She will confront you about your mistakes and will point out where you’re going wrong. She will challenge you to make you better.
She wants to do the best for both but most of all she will bring out the best in you. She is not the one who would nod to everything and laugh at every silly joke. She is real and that’s how she wants the relationship to be.
5. She is not easy and sometimes she can be really difficult
They like their life simplified but up there they are really complicated, the over-thinking trait just adds a star to it. They may get angry and are not easy but it doesn’t mean they are some sort of control freak.
They just want things to be perfect, they want them to last. Last longer. It’s just they think a lot which at times messes up the situation.
6. Your emotions will be valued more than any material
When you date a girl with a big heart, your I love you(s) will give her more chills than expensive gifts will ever. She will instantly melt when you look at her in the eyes, well not furiously but with emotions and sincerity.
7. She is the best of listeners
Your stories may end but not her will to listen. She will listen to all of your stories with keen interest even if it’s about something she doesn’t understand. She knows communication is the key to a healthy relationship and she always knows the importance of listening. Make sure you can reciprocate.
8. Normal is not normal with her
A girl with a complicated mind, but a big heart has this tendency to question everything; she just won’t accept anything just because it has been this way. She needs logic behind things and there are essentially no ‘should be’s’.
If it doesn’t make sense to her, then she won’t settle with ‘because this is the way it has been ever since’. She likes to investigate things for herself and not just accept the predetermined context by society.
Loving a girl with a big heart and a complicated mind is truly a gift and a gift that only keeps on giving. If you have someone like that in your heart, count your lucky stars because you are truly blessed.