We all want to be ‘Someone’; someone bigger and larger than our own selves but being that someone requires us to go through certain significant changes. Change is bound to make you feel uncomfortable but because you are becoming the person that you wanted to become, you must accept the change and steer clear of any anxiety that the change causes.
You must open yourself up to new experiences and you should begin to realize the beauty of change.
But the uncomfortable signs of this process cannot be ignored. They are as follows:
1. Independence Mode On:
You are absolutely independent in your life now. This means that you wish and desire and even do all the things by yourself and this independence is absolutely important to you. You live so that you can be independent. Sometimes, this independence makes you feel alone and uncomfortable but you don’t want to give it up for anything else in the whole wide world.
This is because you feel that you are in charge of everything and this feeling is of utmost pleasure to you.
2. You are not an absolute fan of yourself:
There is one certain constant feeling that you have. This feeling is that you feel that you are a project. Now, what does that mean?
This means that you feel that you have unfinished business to do on yourself. You think that you are a project that needs polishing and you strive for this kind of excellence in your daily life. Also, you are aware of the key areas that you should work on and this awareness is indeed the beginning of the change that you desire to achieve in your life.
3. You so want to dump the unnecessary relationships:
With maturity comes a realization that some relationships come with a lot of baggage and stress. This means that some relationships are not that good for us as we think they are.
This means that you will realize that you need to dump these unnecessary relationships and you want to start afresh on this front because you realize that you are strong enough to deal with the loneliness and sadness that breaking some of these relationships may cause. But what you are striving for is real and you don’t wish to compromise that at all.
4. Trust? What is that?
You have been through a lot, obviously. And this ‘a lot’ has taught you one important thing which is that you can only trust a few people in your life. You wish to put your faith, trust, time and energy into a selected few because you don’t want your trust to be broken.
You have often been in a position where you had to question your ability to trust but now you are certain: You must trust only after checking that that person deserves your trust.
5. Do you feel life is not offering you much?
You desire and wish for new experiences every day and this desire pushes you towards betterment. But you always complain that life is not offering you enough. What does that mean?
This means that you always feel that life could offer you something more and something important and better. And you wait for life to offer you new experiences because you love them.
6. You know what it means to be sad:
This means that one of the most familiar feelings for you is the feeling of sadness. You understand the feeling of sadness and you know how to overcome it.
So much so, you understand the importance of sadness in your life. You don’t think it is as bad as people make of it. You even think that sadness is pertinent and important for your betterment and your life. It is often said that people who have understood the concept of sadness, have understood one of the most important parts of life.
7. You are uncomfortable with the concept of time:
This means that the idea that you might not have enough time makes you feel extremely uncomfortable. You keep thinking that you are running short of time because you feel that there is just so much to do and so little time to do it. While that this true, you often worry that one day you won’t have the time.
So, maybe you have mastered certain concepts of life but one thing that you have not learnt that well is the way you should deal with the entity of time.