How do you respond when your partner questions your intentions?
Do you want to end all your relationship troubles, so that you can find your way back to each other? Conflict. We all have it.
Being in a relationship with someone who has an INTJ personality can be rather difficult.
Escalation within a couple’s conflict happens when each partner communicates in a way that leads to harsher comments, more intense emotions, and the volume going upwards, figuratively and literally.
If you are entangled in a perpetual war with your partner then you need to realize that your relationship conflict is destructive for both of you.
Stuff that is, nonetheless, a huge waste of time.
When you argue with your partner, is your intention to tell them you’re hurt or do you want to hurt them back?
When the interests of the self clash with the interest of one’s group.
The Karpman Drama Triangle graphically depicts that we tend to take on 3 distinct roles, a victim, a persecutor, or a rescuer, when involved in conflict and drama in relationships.
Every intimate relationship has its ups and downs. No matter how compatible the partners may be, they are bound to occasionally disagree.