6 Signs Your Partner Wants You For Sex and Not Love


6 Signs Your Partner Wants You For Sex and Not Love

If you are looking for posts like this then it is a sign you are in love with your partner but the same is not reciprocated. Do you feel that your partner wants you for sex and not your heart? Are you worried why he is not prioritizing love the way you do? Do you think it is not your heart that draws your partner towards you but your body?

There is a fine line between love and lust. We often fail to spot the difference because the feeling of lust is equally intense if not more.

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6 Signs Your Partner Wants You For Sex and Not Love

You’re in deep love with your partner, but if what you get in return is only physical intimacy – you might be wondering – if all he wants is your body, not your heart

You both enjoy the intimate lovemaking process, but you want to make sure that you’re not just being used.

It’s important to know if all that your partner is looking for is your body because, in the end, it is always devastating to find out you were trapped for sex.

Signs your partner wants just your body and not your heart:

1. You have to fulfill his desires even when you’re not in the mood

There are times you don’t feel like making out, but still, you do because your partner insisted. When you are making out a lot, more than what you want, just because your partner insisted – it is a sign that all your partner wants from you is your body and not a real connection.

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Despite your ‘no’ if your partner goes ahead and forces you into the act – it is not okay (even if the two of you are married). With love comes respect and that follows respecting your consent. The desire for lust is not greater than love and nothing is more important than respect. If he doesn’t respect you, he doesn’t love you, it’s that simple.

2. Their track records show a lack of commitment.

If your partner has never been able to stay committed for a long time in the past is a sign that he wants you for sex.

His number of short-term relationships and his attitude of walking way shows the lack of commitment.

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He who gets away easily by using people will continue to do so. Because when you easily get what you want you don’t see the need to pay the price i.e. loyalty.

3. They either talk dirty or don’t talk.

Love is about sharing your feelings and finding solace in each other’s words, but if all your partner talks about is your body and being together in bed. There definitely is something wrong. Relationships are more about emotions than the body.

4. They feel uncomfortable expressing their emotions.

Love is about giving your partner everything and everything here includes your insecurities, fears, frustration, anger, and sadness too.

If your partner feels uncomfortable to express these emotions in front of you, then it is the red flag. Such love is missing the magic or maybe it’s not love at all.

It’s very important in a relationship to be emotionally open to your partner. If one doesn’t share his/her emotions with a partner, he/she has probably some other person to do it with, which is a kind of cheating.

In a nutshell, if your partner isn’t open, and doesn’t talk to you about the inner depths of their soul, then he sees you just as an object, but surely not in love with you.

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5. Your partner has always other plans.

You plan a picnic or dinner or a movie with your partner, but you always find them canceling plans at the eleventh hour. They always have a different plan, maybe a meeting or a party that doesn’t include you. Missing your plans purposely is a sign that your partner wants you for sex and nothing else.

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If your partner misses your birthdays, anniversary, your important shows, or achievements, it’s a sign that your love is not healthy. If they are only present when they want to, they do not want to connect with you at an emotional level.

6. Your partner wants to be alone with you, always.

Well having some good quality time together is intimate, but, if your partner doesn’t want to go for a movie or a dinner date or visit to park and just want to be alone with you and be physically intimate – it’s might indicate his lack of interest in building a deep bond with you.

If the only adventure you’re having with him is on the bed then it’s a sign that your partner wants you for sex and definitely not your heart.

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6 Signs Your Partner Wants You For Sex and Not Love

9 responses to “6 Signs Your Partner Wants You For Sex and Not Love”

  1. Hbomb Avatar

    So full of shit. I’m sorry but with the body is the mind & the soul.

  2. Vivy Avatar

    I think it was well written am a witness of all this

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