Have you ever gotten in a fight with someone because you told them what was bothering you and instead of them apologizing, they find a way to make you feel bad about it. So you are left regretting even saying anything. – RELATIONSHIP RULES
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Deb in Michigan
Wow, that describes how my daughter talks to me. I had always been close with her as she grew up and very supportive of her, and always helping her, and in later years, she had twins and I kept flying there to help and be there for her. She married a total narcissist and now if I have a conversation with her cuz I dont hear from her much, and yet, she makes all these plans, but when I try to get her to commit to coming home (Mich) she comes up with excuses with her job (Army NC) and yet they go out of state to SC and all these other places with friends. Her wife does not like me because of her mental illiness but I stay on total neutral and do not confront her. My daughter didn’t send me a card or gift for my birthday or Mothers Day. Her wife went on a training mission and she made her all special signs when returning, but didn’t arrange for me to come and help while the wife was away. And today I told her I felt unimportant anymore, and left out of her life, and hurt with her lack of interest in me and she lashed back with you need help…you are crazy. I do not have have not had history or mental illiness. I am a very successful Realtor and well received by most because I am caring to others and yet I stay out of my daughters business and marriage (even tho I have to bite my tongue). I cannot tell you how hurtful this is to me. She is very callous with me, short, and says terrible hurtful things. What do I do?
You figure out who they really are and now they realize you are much stronger than they thought you could be.
Maybe they saw you were destroyed once, but now you came back stronger than ever, in spite of all of the trauma that you experienced.That makes you strong. That makes you a badass.
When the narcissist realizes that not only do you now know who & what they are, but that you also recognize your VALUE and SELF-WORTH they know the show is over for them.
They want to scatter and fear about who you are going, to tell the truth about who they really are. They will be compelled to tell lies to common acquaintances (smear campaign) in an effort to discredit an
You will never get the truth out of a narcissist. The closest you will ever come is a story that either makes them the victim or the hero, but never the villain.
– Shannon L. Alder
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“I Hear You”A narcissist’s top agenda is always to be heard or seen.So, when you see your narcissist displaying child-like behavior such as temper tantrum, incessant texting, etc, try responding with, “I hear you” and then repeat back to them exactly what you heard (or read).
“Say Nothing”Narcissist loves a good argument. The more they engage with you, the more opportunities they have to break you down, insult you, and get their way. So stop trying when they have made their point, and you’ve made yours, and no agreement has been reached, stop engaging with them.
“I Trust That”Lying protects their fraudulent truth, which gives them supply when someone falls for it. Calling t
Abusers don’t abuse everyone. They are actually very nice to some people, polite, and helpful.That’s why when problems arise, people do not believe the victim. This causes the victim to doubt themselves and start to internalize the abuse. This is another cruel form of gaslighting.
– Maria Consiglio
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