9. Find someone who is going to make you better.
The person who motivates you to want to be the best version of yourself. Find someone who is a work in progress and help them to improve.
Help them to see their potential. Help them to achieve things they didn’t think they could. But with your love and encouragement, they get there. And when they become a better version of themselves and suddenly everyone sees them, be the one who saw it first.
10. Find someone who wants to build something great with you.
Your life. Your love. Your career. Your goals. Your future. Someone who is willing to invest in all aspects that are you. Someone who will work as hard as you will to achieve these things.
Success doesn’t happen because of a single person believing in themselves. It takes another person believing in them, motivating them, pushing them to achieve more.
When you get everything you’ve ever wanted in life, it’ll be nice to grab the hand of the person who was there from the beginning remembering and looking back in moments of failure when they were the ones who reminded you to get up and try again.
11. Find someone who is going to challenge you. Emotionally. Mentally. Physically.
Emotionally: that person who is going to learn you in ways you don’t even know yourself. Mentally: they get you to see things differently.
They are telling you to read things you’ve never read or watch things or do things you’ve never done before. Physically: they push you past your comfort zone and suddenly you’re just trying to keep up.
12. Find someone who is going to stay.
Someone who sees you at your worst and ugliest and hardest time ever and still loves you. Someone who stands with you in moments of confusion.
Someone who helps you to figure it out. Someone who cares first about your happiness and will do anything to help you achieve it.
13. Find someone who learns with you.
Through trial and error no matter how many times you might fail or change parts of your life they are right there next to you reminding you how special you are.
Find someone who builds you up in such a way your head almost gets big. And they aren’t trying to flatter you, they believe in you. They believe in you more than anyone.
14. Find someone who is different.
That person who keeps you up at night. That person who tells you these crazy ideas and before you can even think about whether it’s a good idea or not you’re already following their lead.
Because there’s just something about them that’s unlike anyone else you’ve ever met.
15. Find someone who loves you unconditionally.
Because we are in a generation where everyone can be replaced with a single swipe. Where everyone is looking for the next best thing and no is ever satisfied.
Wait for the person who realizes you are the best thing that’s ever happened to them and there isn’t doing better than you.
16. Find someone who is never going to quit you.
At the end of the day, that’s what it comes down to.