Be happy as you are, for who you are and for what you have been through. When you’re happy, you can make your partner happy and you will have a long lasting and healthy relationship.
5. Allowing the past haunt your present
The past should be where it belongs, i.e in the past. You don’t live there anymore.
Maybe you’ve been through some really rough times but your partner is not responsible for that, if he/she is trying to make you happy, putting in efforts you should at least respect that. Don’t let the demons from past haunt your present.
You need to move on. Not being able to move on and letting the past disrupt has ruined many relationships. Take your time to heal and move on and once you’re done then get into a relationship and let no memories or anything from the past interfere with your present life.
6. Giving up early
Trusts broke, misunderstandings arise and sometimes situation forces you to do things which you never expected you would do.
It doesn’t mean the trust and faith cannot be restored. If you love someone enough then that love can mend almost anything in this world. Give your partner a chance.
Don’t give up your hope, faith and love that easily. People make mistakes, often people get disheartened easily and they think they have lost the love and just tend to give up and burn all the bridges connecting them, this is where your relationship jump off the cliff.
7. Lack of intimacy
Intimacy here is not only referred to sex but the emotional and mental intimacy you got to have with your partner. It is about having the true connection between you two.
You don’t just need to communicate with your partner but have some fun with them and spend some good time.
If you’re not having fun if you’re not happy, why are you even in the relationship? if you put in efforts in a relationship it returns you happiness and joy that blesses you with a long-lasting healthy relationship.
Sometimes you get paranoid that your partner is going to breakup with you. You start creating scenarios in your head where your partner is breaking up with you.
Then suddenly start living in a fear subsequently this leads you to feel pressurized to stay rather than wanting to stay.
You start feeling jealous and insecure, start doubting the actions of your partner. This is, in fact, a common mistake that ends relationships.
Have faith and trust in your partner.
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