These psychological tricks make sure you rule his mind and heart, in a good way.
He will be obsessed (in a good way)!
When it comes to sexual powers of attraction, there’s one thing I love more than anything else: being on a man’s mind.
Sure, you could entrance him with your body, offer him his favorite drink and meal and keep him captive in your bed for a few hours, but being on his mind is, in my experience, more powerful than anything you could ever do while face-to-face.
Being on his mind means he’s thinking of you every minute and every second.
Being on his mind means he’s distracted, crazy, imagining doing all kinds of things to you, that he’s all yours.
And although that might happen on its own, you can, hmm… speed up the process by using these 5 subtle techniques.
1. Start with being interesting.
Sure, you won’t be interesting to everyone, but there’s a way to improve your conversational powers with those who do find you interesting.
The secret to being a good conversationalist is to be a good listener.
I used to think that being in conversation was about me being heard, me being loud, me being right — and I lost several friendships because of this attitude. So I learned to listen.
Practicing active listening literally changed my life.
It’s changed my relationships and improved my social skills. It’s made me aware that I have a deep vein of wisdom and a generous capacity for listening that I can also use professionally.
So, if you want to captivate him and be constantly on his mind, first you need to listen to him. Ask questions about his interests, his feelings, and his desires. Glean as much information as you can about the things that turn him on, both physically and intellectually. With that information in hand, you can then develop conversations about what he enjoys talking about, which will make him simply love being in your company.
That doesn’t mean you need to sacrifice your interests, of course. Ideally, you want to find topics that interest you both. It needs to be fun for you too, and it’s easier to keep conversations going if you have a genuine interest in the subjects you discuss with each as well.
2. Hook him in.
You’ve caught his interest. He listens to you, responds to you and shares things about himself easily. He trusts you and feels comfortable around you. That’s great! Now you can move on to the next step.
Hooking him in is easy if you already have his attention. You just need to push it a little further with some sexy flirting.
Is your guy a cerebral being with lots of fantasies and erotic thoughts? sexting is an excellent way to reel him in for sure. And if he’s the more visual type, send him some sexy selfies along with them.
Always remember to be yourself, of course.
If you’re not the type to be forward with your desires, you can drop subtle hints. And If you’re like me and are comfortable getting more aggressive, you’ll have no problem saying directly how badly you want to make out with him.
3. Follow his lead.
Once you’ve opened the conversation via text, follow where his thoughts lead. Is he asking for more details? Men are usually more visual, so bring out the descriptive words.