There is a soulmate for everyone, however, not everyone finds the one who is meant only for us. If you are one of the lucky ones, you will find the one with whom you are really meant to be. Sometimes it takes time before you realize that they are the right ones for you. But if you are in doubt, here are some telltale signs you’re destined to be together.
“Loving someone and having them love you back is the most precious thing in the world.” ― Nicholas Sparks, The Rescue.
You are madly in love with him but somewhere, you feel worried and ask yourself, “Are we meant to be together?”. Most people these days don’t agree with the concept of true love. But trust us, true love exists. And when two people are meant to be together, love will find a way.
Here is how to know if you’re meant to be with someone.
16 Signs You’re Destined To Be Together
1. If… You Consider Him As Your Secret-Keeper.
He knows all your secrets and you find it safe in sharing them with him. The reason you do this is you trust him more than anybody else in this world. This trust is one of the essential elements you need to sustain a long-lasting relationship.
2. If… You Don’t Want Him To Change.
You love and respect him just the way he is. You don’t want him to change. You might not like certain things but you love him for the person he is.
3. If… You Are Comfortable By Being Yourself In Front Of Him
This is one of the biggest signs you’re destined to be together; you can simply be yourself when he is around. You don’t need to pretend or get scared to do anything which might turn him off. This happens because he too has accepted you in who you are.
4. If… You Communicate Through Silences.
You don’t have to chatter all the time you are with him. You two can simply sit together and do your own work silently and enjoy each other’s company simultaneously. This indicates the strong bond you share.
5. If… You Are Not Jealous When He Hangs Out His Female Friends.
You give him the space to spend time with his buddies. You don’t feel jealous even if he hangs out with his female friends because you have that confidence he’s not going to cheat on you.
6. If… You Don’t Feel Suffocated Because He Gives You The Space You Need.
Just like he gives space to you, he gives you space too. You don’t feel he’s being too much possessive or controlling over you. This sense of comfort and stability is one of the keys to a long-lasting relationship and is one of the most important signs you’re destined to be together.
7. If… You Have Met His Family And He Has Met Yours.
So, the introduction part is done already! Both of you have probably met each other’s families and feel loved by them. Who knows, they are perhaps waiting too for The Big Day!
8. If… You Are Not Scared To Disagree With Him.
The two of you respect each other’s opinions. You don’t feel scared to disagree with him because you know this is just a part of life and he will accept and understand you. It will never be a reason for any fight.
9. If… You Always Sort Out The Differences You Have.
You understand it’s okay to have differences and you work it out together rather than getting into fights. You always try to find solutions to problems rather than harping on the problem. This harmony gives stability to your relationship and proves that you were meant to be together.
10. If… You Can Visualize A Future With Him.
When the two of you make plans for the future, you always include each other. You can’t imagine a future without him!
11. If… You Are Still Together After Fights And Misunderstandings
Fights and misunderstandings are common in every relationship. What matters is how you have dealt with them. There have been a number of times when you guys fought and misunderstood each other but at the end of the day, you have sorted them out and stayed together. This made your bond stronger.
12. If… You Love Exploring New Places And Doing New Things With Him.
You enjoy trying out new things with him; perhaps learning a new sport or a new musical instrument. Probably you have gone on those wonderful adventurous trips with him too. This means you enjoy exploring life with him by your side.
13. If… You Don’t Need Him; You Just Love Being With Him.
You don’t love him because you need him; you are with him because you enjoy his companionship. This joy of companionship is exactly the feeling you need to have for someone you want to spend your whole life with.
14. If… You Are Always Honest With Him.
This is another one of the defining signs you’re destined to be together. You probably made mistakes and have done things he might not have liked. But you are not scared to confess them to him. He too has appreciated your honesty and hasn’t left you.
15. If… You Can’t Imagine Dating Other Men.
There might have been times when you thought of quitting but it was just a thought! You didn’t quit. You two stayed together. This is because you can’t imagine yourself with someone other than him.
16. If… For You, It’s Always ‘We’ Or ‘Us’; Not ‘ You’ Or ‘Me’.
You always use ‘we’ or ‘us’ whenever you talk about yourselves. You enjoy considering yourself as a couple always.
Not every time there will be a click and an instant connection. Sometimes, you will have to go through the hurdles and challenges of the relationship to actually understand the signs you’re meant to be together. But it’s all worth it, right?
Keep on loving and stay happy always!
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)
Are soulmates always meant to be together?
There’s no guarantee that soulmates are meant to be together forever. However, love is always there. Soulmate love is so strong and divine, that even after being separated, true love remains.
How do you know he is the one?
Some of the most prominent signs that prove he is the one, are that he’s kind and loves you with all his heart, he supports you, shares a strong friendship with you, tells you everything, and most importantly, always wants to spend time with you.
What are the signs you aren’t meant to be together?
When you feel like you need to change your partner to be happy, or you are always feeling dissatisfied and unhappy with each other, is when you realize that you are not meant to be together.