8. Hold the sex.
This advice may look contrary to current trends in the millennial generation where relationships start with casual intimacy. While there is nothing wrong with this approach per se, but it does have the potential to unnecessarily complicate things.
When we get intimate too soon, we let the chemicals in our bodies cloud our judgment and we tend to make choices based on chemical rushes instead of sound reasoning and logic.
9. Enjoy the process and don’t get hung up on the destination.
While marriage and happily ever after’s are still relevant concepts but do not treat every single date as your potential life partner. Approach the dating process as an opportunity to get to know each other better and let the relationship unfold organically.
When you approach the dating process with certain agendas in mind, you tend to become controlling and manipulative and it kills the spontaneity and charm of the relationship.
Be natural, fun, and spontaneous, and enjoy the process without getting too hung up on the destination. What is meant to stay will stay, what is meant to go, will go.
10. Follow your own Internal Guidance System.
Ultimately the most important ally in your life is your own internal guidance system. Go with the wisdom of your own intuitive heart and go with what feels right for you at the moment. Take time to tune into your body, listen to your own gut instincts, and follow what they tell you.
Your own internal guidance system will never lead you astray.
These unwritten modern dating rules can help you get into a relationship that will genuinely make you feel happy, content, and satisfied with the person you are with. Give these rules a try, and see for yourself how they truly transform your dating game.