If you have difficulties in interacting with an introvert, this fun guide will help you.
We introverts aren’t really that different to everyone else, we just get our energy from being alone. We enjoy solitude and require it in order to recharge our batteries. That isn’t to say we don’t like people or that we aren’t good with crowds. It just means that once we’ve done all of that, we need time alone to rejuvenate.
Interacting with an introvert in your life just means you need to become used to dealing with them and their alone time, so here’s a little guide for you to help you on your way.
Understanding an introvert
The main thing you need to understand about introverts is that we sometimes need our own space. This doesn’t mean we have to be alone 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, but it does mean that every now and then, we need complete alone time to spend it doing whatever we want. That doesn’t mean we don’t like spending time with you, far from it, but appreciating our personal space is the way to go when trying to understand your introvert. Get to know the signs that we are fed up with human company and know when to bow out, learn when we want to leave the party without us having to tell you and understand that sometimes we just want to stay in and read a book whilst you go out with your friends. Understand what your introvert likes to do and give them lots of opportunities to do so.
Interacting with an introvert
Introverts like to socialize too, so when you’re invited to a family event or a friend’s party, it doesn’t mean we won’t come with you, but just remember that our energy is limited. Whilst you extroverts may be able to party the night away with a crowd of people, just remember that our energy is very quickly sapped by other people so develop something that works best for you. If you’d rather stay out, agree beforehand that you will stay on whilst they go home, or compromise to leave at a certain time. Interaction with others can be exhausting for introverts, so bear this in mind when you’re interacting yourself and when you’re around others.
Introverts tend to like to speak about deeper things, rather than shallow gossip, for example. Look to make a meaningful conversation with your introvert and create a deep connection between the two of you. They will appreciate it and if the topic is something that will make them think, they will love you even more for it. Sometimes, the best way to approach an introvert is to let them know you’re available if they want to hang out, but don’t push to be around them. Let them come to you when they’re ready and always remember: if they’re silent, it’s not an insult! They’re probably unsure of how to carry on the conversation or are thinking about the topic in their head before they respond.