When people vent to me

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When people vent to me
Often we end up feeling stronger when we are trusted and talked to.
Has this happened with you too, when being someones support system you ended up feeling stronger ?

18 responses to “When people vent to me”

  1. Hanbal Zin Avatar

    To me the best advise is for our ownselves…for our sincerity in rectifying ourselves rather than the world shall be felt and reflected to those confiding in us as well as those around us…we never know…for we may appear to give advise to somebody…without realizing that we are equally learning something from that somebody being given advise to…perhaps thats where sincerity and humility spread their magic…LIFE IS INDEED BEAUTIFUL THAT WAY….the HOLIER THAN THOU ATTITUDE that should be diminished from our minds,hearts and souls….:-)

  2. Hanbal Zin Avatar

    To me the best advise is for our ownselves…for our sincerity in rectifying ourselves rather than the world shall be felt and reflected to those confiding in us as well as those around us…we never know…for we may appear to give advise to somebody…without realizing that we are equally learning something from that somebody being given advise to…perhaps thats where sincerity and humility spread their magic…LIFE IS INDEED BEAUTIFUL THAT WAY….the HOLIER THAN THOU ATTITUDE that should be diminished from our minds,hearts and souls….:-)

  3. K.D. Tatum Avatar

    Yeah, but the thing with this is that sometimes the person who does the venting doesn't give a damn about what you're going through! :/

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    ☮ sacred place

  5. Terry D. Pickron Avatar

    …it does one good to be on the ''give and take'' sides of venting…

  6. Anna Leah Moon Avatar

    I love to listen.i love to be still when someone rages in desperation.i love the calm, the softening of the heart that follows. I feel needed this way.

  7. Hurt Balceda Avatar

    Thank you s0 much TMJ! 🙂

  8. Fabiana Zeitter Avatar

    Of course. I feel a deep joy when somebody says to me "your words helped an comforted me". I feel useful and happy. The best of feelings

  9. Ana Vasic Avatar

    Yeah..feeling stronger and smarter until I realized it was only my ego that's been inflated and that all the given advice was in fact for myself.
    On the other hand even if someone asks for your advice it doesn't mean they want it.

    1. Fabiana Zeitter Avatar

      Perhaps you think the advice is for yourself because it is what you would need to hear too. And it is still good for others. It is not the ego for me. It is feeling good for the other. Like empathy for the good. And you will realize when the gratitude is true. Be more faithful! There are still good things in this world.. .

    2. Ana Vasic Avatar

      Yes, genuine gratitude makes all the difference, you said it well 🙂

  10. Susana Ford Avatar

    Really love it…..

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