These two friends made a pact to get married at 30, but something unthinkable happened.
A comment thread on the internet was talking about whether anybody actually went through with any of those “marriage pacts” that we joke about so often.
You know the ones: where you and a mutual friend joke that, “Oh if we are still single at 40-years-old, we’ll get married!!!”
As it turns out, there was someone who did have an experience with a marriage pact. And it was a heartbreaking one:
Life is so fragile, and sometimes there is no way to truly understand why certain things happen. I guess all we can do is remain strong and keep going.
Do we have readers here who have also gone for such an age pact ? What are your experiences?
At what point did you realize you’d outgrown a friendship? For me, it was when I found myself dreading the hangouts I used to look forward to. I’d sit there, smiling, laughing at the same inside jokes, but inside I felt… off. Like I was playing an old version of myself just to fit in.
Do you also feel like you don’t have anything in common with your friends? Different values, different priorities, different energy. And you still loved them, but you stopped enjoying being around them the way you used to.
It’s a strange kind of heartbreak, because nothing technically went wrong. And these people were part of your life for years, someone you made core memories with. But sometimes, the version of you that chose those friendships isn’t the version of you that exists now.
So, you’re crazy about your partner, but their friends? Not so much… So before you start plotting your escape from every social event, let’s talk about what to do when you don’t like your partners friends.
Maybe they’re loud, immature, or just give off bad vibes. And when their names keep popping up in every conversation, and every weekend plan somehow includes them, it starts to get frustrating.
So, whatever the reason, you find yourself stuck in the awkward position of hating your boyfriend’s friends or your girlfriend’s friends.
Here’s what to do when you don’t like your partner’s friends…
Strengthening friendships doesn’t have to be complicated—it’s all about showing up, making time, and adding a little extra effort. If you’ve been wondering how to strengthen friendships or looking for fun ways to strengthen a friendship, these simple, effective tips have got you covered.
KEY POINTS
Friendships are essential for our survival and well-being, so we have good reason to strengthen these bonds.
Research has identified strategies people use to strengthen desirable friendships.
The most common strategy is to provide support, offering help during challenging times.
If HBO’s The White Lotus has taught us anything, it’s that vacations can be a breeding ground for drama. The latest season throws a girls’ trip into the spotlight, reminding us how even the best of friendships can unravel under passive-aggressive comments, unspoken grievances, and clashing personalities. So here’s a guide on how to survive girls trip without fighting!
We’ve all been there. As much as we love our friends, group travel has a way of unearthing old tensions and testing patience. So how do you make sure your dream getaway doesn’t turn into a friendship-ending fiasco?
To avoid coming back with more emotional baggage than souvenirs, here’s how to travel with friends without becoming enemies and losing your mind!
We all meet many people in life, but every once in a while, we come across someone who feels different—like they’ve known us forever. These are our kindred spirits. They understand us in ways others don’t, and being around them feels natural and easy, like coming home.
As human beings, we are wired for connection. The bonds we form with others give our lives meaning and color. They lift us when we’re struggling and make the good moments even sweeter. But a kindred spirit goes beyond ordinary friendship. It’s a rare and beautiful connection that touches the heart and soul.
When you meet a kindred spirit, it’s like finding a missing piece of yourself. Conversations flow effortlessly, and there’s an unspoken understanding between you. You feel seen—not just for who you are, but for who you’re becoming.
Sometimes, we all need a friendship audit. Life is too short to spend time with people who drain our energy or make us feel small. The right friends lift us up, celebrate our wins, and stand by us through the tough times. But if certain friendships bring more stress than joy, it might be time to take a closer look.
It’s easy to feel stuck in relationships that no longer serve us. Maybe we worry about hurting someone’s feelings, or perhaps the history we share makes it hard to walk away. But the truth is, we have the power to choose who we allow in our lives. And just like we clean out our closets, we should regularly evaluate our friendships to ensure they bring us the positivity and support we deserve.
Today, we’ll understand what a friendship audit is and how to do one…
We all have that one friend we used to be close with—the person we laughed with, shared secrets with, and made countless memories with. But over time, life happens. People move, schedules fill up, and before you know it, months or even years have passed without a word. If you’ve been thinking about reaching out but feel nervous about how to start, you’re not alone. Reconnecting with an old friend can feel intimidating, but it doesn’t have to be.
The good news is that most friendships don’t disappear—they just pause. Today, we talk about practical and natural ways to reconnect with an old friend making things awkward.
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