Are you aware of the fact that your one toxic relationship habit can eventually ruin your relationship?
Toxic habits are extensions of our personality and are hard to give up. However, identifying and acknowledging your toxic relationship habits can be a step in the right direction.
Believe it or not, your toxic behavior in a relationship may have something to do with your zodiac sign. While every sign has a different personality, they also illustrate varied kinds of positive as well as negative habits in different people.
We have summed up the toxic relationship habit of each zodiac sign for you so that you can understand yourself (and your partner) better.
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Your Toxic Relationship Habit Based On Your Zodiac Sign
Here is a brief account of toxic behavior in a relationship as per astrology.
1. Aries (March 21–April 19)
An Aries can be a hell of a lot stubborn when it comes to revealing how they really feel. Somehow they think it is better to keep their mouths shut about the problems they are facing in the relationship.
Well, unlike what they desperately hope for; nothing in life gets solved on its own. If there are problems, those problems need to be talked about with the partner. It is wrong to expect that your partner will miraculously understand when something is wrong and rectify it.
Your toxic relationship habit is that you are far too stubborn to be in a well-functioning relationship.
2. Taurus (April 20–May 20)
A Taurus can’t let go of their competitive streak, even in the relationship. There is always a blinking scoreboard that is projected on the back of their mind. Every kind gesture, every dinner treat, every slight made to their happiness, everything gets added to that scoreboard.
You don’t need to keep a ledger with your partner. There is no competition as to who is the better person. Both of you are in this together, don’t forget that.
Your toxic relationship habit is that you are very competitive and can be materialistic at times when it comes to relationships.
3. Gemini (May 21–June 21)
Gemini people are just a little bit too hit and miss for anyone to take them seriously. They make commitments in all sincerity but nearly always fail to stick to them.
What is worse is that they somehow come up with such excuses that the only person they convince is themselves. For someone who is in a relationship with a Gemini, it can get a bit tiring to be let down again and again. There will come a point where they won’t be able to trust the other person at all.
Your toxic relationship habit is that you never keep your promises, and your partner never knows what to expect from you.
4. Cancer (June 22–July 22)
Cancer takes their relationship a bit too seriously. They become a lot clingy a lot too soon. There is no denying the fact that they are very loving and caring, but sometimes their clinginess becomes too restricting.
You and your partner are both independent individuals. You are not supposed to be inseparable. Give them some space to breathe or you might lose them for good. Your relationship might be the stuff of legends but that doesn’t have to be the only thing in your life.
Your toxic relationship habit is that you tend to be too emotional about everything and you never give your partner space.
Related: Dependent Disorder
5. Leo (July 23–August 22)
According to Leo, the best thing about this world is that they exist. They have this supremacy thing going on which is a great quality for a leader, but not so much for a partner.
Being a Leo you might be used to being the one who bosses everyone around. But that is not a healthy attitude for a relationship where both partners must be equals. Please don’t assume you know what is best for them and try to control their lives. Consider them as an equal and treat them so.
Your toxic relationship habit is that you are too self-obsessed and you are unable to bend your will for anything or anyone, including your partner.
6. Virgo (August 23–September 22)
Virgos have a hard time reigning in their jealousy. They make a mountain out of a molehill and that just sours the relationship. Being a Virgo, you need to understand that you cannot question your partner’s every move just because you are insecure. Rather you should work with them and try to overcome your insecurities which will allow you to have a healthier relationship.
Your toxic relationship habit is that you are extremely jealous, after all, when it’s held at the wrong angle, a magnifying glass can actually cause serious damage.
Related: 7 Ways You Can Deal With Jealousy In Your Relationship
7. Libra (September 23–October 23)
Libras are very good at taking care of problems. But this makes them prone to look for problems even where there aren’t any. More problematic than that, they take it upon themselves to ‘fix’ their partners too.
Just because someone isn’t as organized or tidy as you doesn’t mean that they need a lesson in planning and management. It would help if you let people be their own individuals. Imposing your own expectations on them will not help anyone. And on that note, you are not perfect yourself. Try introspecting and working on yourself rather than worrying about your partner.
Your toxic relationship habit is that you go on looking for problems everywhere and have a need to be a goody two shoes in your relationship.
8. Scorpio (October 24–November 21)
Scorpios have zero tolerance when things don’t go the way they planned. It can be quite tiring to keep up with the expectations of a Scorpio. And the fact that they have the habit of blowing up at the drop of the hat just makes everything worse.
You are not dating a machine. Your partner is human and has flaws by default. You need to be a lot more understanding and patient if you want your relationship to blossom.
Your toxic relationship habit is that you can be very dominating to the point where you actually hurt your partner’s feelings and end up driving them farther away from you.
9. Sagittarius (November 22–December 21)
Sagittarius brings misery upon themselves and by no fault of anyone else. They really have low self-esteem and they keep playing on it. They always feel that they are lacking in one aspect or the other and that just makes them very negative about everything.
Your partner doesn’t expect you to be perfect, but what can they do if you bring so much negativity to the relationship due to your self-esteem issues. You need to learn your own self-worth and stop putting yourself down. Only then can you be truly worthy of your partner.
Your toxic relationship habit is that you suffer from low self-esteem. Ah, Sagittarius- it’s okay to be a little guarded so that your partner knows where you stand.
Related: 10 Habits That Cause Low Self-Esteem And Depression
10. Capricorn (December 22–January 19)
Capricorns have the ability to take on the world all by them. They are so used to being their own boss that they sometimes forget that being in a relationship means that one has to be vulnerable and open in front of their partner.
You don’t need to guard yourself against your partner. You have to trust them enough to let them break your walls and know the true you.
Your toxic relationship habit is that you are very exceptionally guarded; the more that you disregard your relationships in favor of other things, the more your relationship is going to suffer.
11. Aquarius (January 20–February 18)
Aquarius has this thing that doesn’t let them stand up for themselves. They think that they are being the bigger person and letting their partner have whatever they want, but in reality, they are just being a pushover.
You don’t have to agree to anything that makes you unhappy. It will only fester and bring dysfunction to the relationship. Learn to make your voice heard and your concerns visible in the relationship. Being trampled upon is in no way equal to being loved.
Your toxic relationship habit is that you don’t stand up for yourself enough, not everything is about your partner in a relationship.
12. Pisces (February 19–March 20)
Pisces are known to be creative and have a flair for drama. But sometimes if their drama needs are not met they go out looking for it.
This might make them invade the privacy of their partner. And that is just the beginning of the many troubles that they can bring upon themselves. You need to stop letting your thoughts get ahead of you, and start respecting the privacy of your partner.
Your toxic relationship habit is that you look for drama when it’s not needed. And stop romanticizing everything in a relationship.
Could you resonate with your zodiac’s toxic habit in a relationship? What’s the most toxic habit in a relationship according to you? Please let us know by commenting down below.
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