It hurts. A pain so bad, it’s hard to describe it if you haven’t felt it before. I suppose losing someone you love also means losing part of yourself. I lost my dad five years ago, and although I may not think about it every hour of the day like I used to when I do think about him – the pain is as painful as day one.
I miss his presence. I miss the way he made me feel. I miss his laughter, his jokes. I miss our family, I miss the way they were. I miss the way I used to be. But what I miss most, is him. Whenever I make any decision these days, I wonder if he would approve. I constantly wonder what he would do. I look for signs everywhere I can, just in case the light of his torch might show me the way.
The thing with losing someone is that people mold that person into who they want to remember them as, they paint their own colors and add whatever fabric they want. They erase the bits they don’t like and are sure to stay in the lines, only to finish it off with a perfect shine.
Grief is selfish.
I don’t believe in memories anymore, I believe in the way something made you feel. Describing an event aesthetically is easily altered and encrypted, but a feeling is real and although it may disappear, it will never be forgotten. Our world is temporary, people are temporary and feelings are temporary. We were never meant to last forever, yet we attach ourselves to people as though we will last forever. Love and letting go unassumingly coincide; they dance the same routine and shed light on somewhere we rarely go. So maybe there’s something quite beautiful about grief: the fact we dared to love that much.
I’m sure that everyone has dreams in their life. We want to become an astronaut, firefighter, or celebrity—but many of us view it as nearly impossible.
We let self-doubt and fear of failure become an obstacle, convincing ourselves that we’re not good enough—that we don’t have what it takes to be a winner.
But it’s not impossible to successfully reach our dreams. Of course, we need a planned strategy in place and a mindset that concentrates on making progress day by day. Here are 8 tips to help you pursue your distant dreams and live life to the fullest.
1. Start Your Day With Positivity
Starting your day on the right foot can be a game-changer. Plenty of people have difficulty finding the motivation to get out of bed, let alon
Sometimes moving to a new city is the best option to make a better life for yourself. Though moving is scary but the idea to start over a new and fresh life somewhere at a distance is great. if you are considering making a better life for yourself then it is time to hire Los Angeles movers for yourself to successfully complete the relocation process.
Getting to know about the new area, establishing a new routine, living in a completely unfamiliar environment, and meeting new people will change everything. You can use this change for the betterment of your life. So, Now, check out these ideas to make a better life:
How many times has your inner voice guided you to "let go" of something? Countless times...Right? Don't worry! We all are in the same boat. :)
Before going further, let me quickly introduce you to your inner devils. We all have them inside us. Believe it or not, these are desperate guests who visit you as a surprise by cropping up out of nowhere just to make sure that your mood remains blah the whole day or for at least the next few days.
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Your ugly past...Your childhood traumas...Your devastating memories...Your consistent rejections, failures...Your teenage tragedies...Your worst experiences...Your shattering incidences...Your out of control ev
Are you fed up being around toxic people the way I was? Then you are on the right path with this curation. Sometimes we choose to be around toxic people knowingly or unknowingly. Sometimes the situations and circumstances choose us to be around toxic people where we feel helpless by thinking that there is no other option than being prey to toxicity.
"There are people who bring you down by just BEING THEM." - Malebo Sephodi
Have you ever thought about how toxic people's behavior, views, and opinions impact us emotionally and mentally in an adverse way?
We feel stressed...irritated...tensed...frustrated...agitated. Ultimately, this toxicity hampers the quality of life. Toxic views, opinions, and be
While not everyone is addiction-prone, based on individual predispositions and availability, some people tend to be more vulnerable than others. Post pandemic stress has become a real problem for millions of people. Individuals are still struggling with substance use, and drug overdoses continue to rise.
The lingering effects are still there. Pandemic anxiety and stress go on for substantial numbers of people. These individuals lost relatives and loved ones, lost jobs, are immunocompromised, and livelihoods continue to be adversely impacted. The risk for addiction is high for many people. However, it can be prevented, and you can know when to ask for help.
Easing Post Pandemic Stress
Chronic stress could lead to something called learned helplessness. This is a situation when you feel unable
Are you exhausted, but not in the physical sense? Are you finding yourself feeling overwhelmed and stressed out more often than not? If so, then you may be experiencing signs of emotional exhaustion. This is a very real condition that can have serious consequences if left untreated.
In this blog post, we will discuss six signs that you're emotionally exhausted and some tips on dealing with it. Let's get started:
6 Signs You're Emotionally Exhausted
1. You're Constantly Running on Empty
If you're constantly running on empty, it's a sign that you're emotionally exhausted. You may find yourself unable to keep up with the demands of your job, family, and social life. You may feel like you're always giving and never receiving. T
The world as we know it has changed drastically due to the many external locus of control extremities that have occurred globally. The Covid pandemic is the most widely felt human catastrophe that has left people around the world with devastating mental illnesses such as depression, TSD, PTSD, paranoia, and anxiety to name just a few.
The necessities of the pandemic required us to learn how to live in isolation, and not everyone is capable of learning this life skill.
The world was suddenly jerked into the reality of practicing social distancing in a world where we all had free will to go where we wanted to go and be with whom we wanted to be. How then, do we as human beings adjust at lightning speed to a new normal? Well, the sad reality is, that the world was not ready, and the people were not ready.
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