Quick Tips to Build a Foundation for Confidence

Confidence comes naturally to some, while others have to work on it. If you belong to the latter group, then you should be happy to know that you are indeed at an advantage. Contrary to popular belief, those of us who have had to work on building confidence up from the bottom are far better prepared to face the downers that life throws at us. 

People who have been confident all their life find it much harder to deal with their sudden lack of confidence after unexpected setbacks. This is because they are not used to that feeling of being unsure and afraid of taking the next step. Keep that point in mind as you go through the following tips to build a mental foundation for leading a more fulfilling life.

1. Assess the Problems

Assess your current situation and try to find out if lack of self-confidence is affecting your professional or personal life in any way. If the answer is yes, then jot down all you can about every specific situation where it’s happening. For example, are you afraid to take the next step in your relationship because you lack confidence in yourself or in the relationship? Be true to yourself and you should be able to tell. The list does not have to be comprehensive, as long as it highlights all the major, confidence-related issues in your life.

2. Estimate the Risks

Now that we have a list to work with, it is time to estimate which steps you can take right away to boost your confidence by solving the assessed problem. Each possible step must also be accompanied by an estimation of what the respective outcomes are likely to be. Calculated risks are the only risks you should be taking because increasing your success-to-attempt ratio is key when you are looking to build a strong foundation that will nurture and grow your confidence over time. We will elaborate more on that next with a few classic examples.

3. Reflect Your Personality

Among other things, the clothes we wear, the way we carry them, and the car(s) we drive are important external factors that will always play key roles towards building or affecting our confidence at any given moment. However, this does not mean you need to drive a Ferrari and wear Armani to be confident, especially when you are trying to build a foundation here. In fact, hiding one’s insecurities under brands is a classic sign of being underconfident.

Instead, practice your sense of feasibility by investing money into a car that befits your personality and status, without putting you under crushing debt. You can find used cars from top brands in excellent condition right here. It’s one of the best car garages Essex has for exchanging, buying and even locating used cars in the county. As far as the clothing is concerned, it’s the fit and the material that matters more than anything else. For example, you should always wear a tailormade suit, disregarding anything readymade in that department, even if it’s being sold by the most luxurious brand in the world.

4. Act with Practicality

Now that you have a list of calculated risks which you are not taking simply because you lack confidence, it’s time to act. Take only a few of those new steps at a time and execute them to the best of your abilities. You have calculated the odds and they are already in your favor, so the risk of failure is low here.

Low as it may be, a chance of failure is still there, and a few things may not go your way because nothing ever works 100%. However, since you took well calculated, practical steps towards making the changes you want in your life, you will gain confidence from every little thing that does work. True confidence is built on both success and first-hand experience, so rest assured that you are already becoming more confident with each uncharted but calculated path that you take.