“But at some point, you have to stop being so angry, you have to stop being so sad, you have to stop killing yourself and start being gentle with yourself. At some point you have to just let it all go and be happy, you have to spread love instead of being afraid of it. You have to love yourself and everyone around you before its too late. Don’t waste away being unhappy over trivial things dear. Don’t do it. Don’t do it to yourself and don’t let other people do it to you.”
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Ive been there, too. on both the side of the parent AND the side of the kid.
pity party doesnt work. you want to change it.work to change it.
it IS for them. every breath you take, every mistake you make reflects on them.
it is about the parent, too. but a lesser extent. you should absolutely not be abused.
especially by your SELF.
its ok to mourn. its ok to be hurt and sad. its not ok to live there.