At the moment of intimacy, a woman, first of all, listens to herself and her feelings, but also takes all their strength and fullness, not seeking to either hide their feelings, deny them, or run away from them, because it is during this period of life that they reach their highest expression.
The sad irony is that in men, on the contrary, with aging, sexual problems increase.
Interesting fact: There exists a myth that only the young are sexually attractive. The culture we live in exalts youth.
But if your mirror isn’t reflecting a firm flesh, and lustrous locks, you may feel like the party is going on without you.
In reality, older women are quite sexy in most cases. Of course, thinning hair, cellulite, or a paunchy midriff do not adorn you.
But think back on what it was that made you attractive in your younger years. Was it your soulful brown eyes, sense of humor, your crooked smile?
Chances are, those attributes are still as appealing. In fact, most people consider that their partners’ physically attractive increases with age.
4. Comprehension milestone 47-50 years
The key four years are those that will allow the determination of the entry of a woman into her 50th birthday.
Come questions about your own couple: those who have invested their strength in family life, expected to receive joy and satisfaction from it.
Now they have to strengthen existing relationships or revise them. Not necessarily in order to come to a break, but in order to give them a new, living meaning.
On the threshold of the 50th anniversary, a woman again turns to the search for her own femininity and her relationship with sexuality.
This is a deep inner path of self-knowledge, which is in many ways similar to its previous intellectual and spiritual quest: it needs to clearly realize its belonging to the world of women.
Despite the fact that hormone level is really low right now, and the majority of people think that sex life is coming to the end, that’s not the truth.
As well as, the myth that sex becomes boring when you get older. Of course, libido is dropping and slower rates of arousal and the predictability of having the same partner for 20 years or more.
But in reality – sex is always as good as you make it.
Experience of an older man may pay off in improved sexual technique and a better understanding of what will please his partner.
Less penile sensitivity means he may be able to enjoy a wider range of erotic sensations and maintain his erection longer.
Many women begin to blossoms with maturity. Although longtime partners do have to contend with issues of familiarity in their relationship, these problems can be offset by greater emotional intimacy and trust.
Because inhibitions often lessen with age, sex at 47 or 55 may include a level of experimentation and playfulness you wouldn’t have dreamed of in your younger years.