You will never have to chase what wants to stay with you.
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if someone wants to be in your life and was a true friend they would make an effort-I learned a few things over theyears…if you are the one always making calls and messaging and they never mae an effortto call you to see how you are-they clearly are not interested…one soided friendships never work…I did n experiment this year-decided not to call or message anyne-have limited wifi anyway….but wanted to see who was genuine and realy cared about me…so was going to call only the ones who called me first…my presence did not matter,neither did my absence….people I really did care about validated they did not feel the same way-not even a phone cal when my dad died….I’m at peace now-met some great friends who are very compatible and make an effort…sometimes things happen and when we no longer struggle to try to keep people in our lives who clearly have no interest-we free up time which is so precious to bring in new people who do.all relationships require regular exchange of energy…when they are unbalanced-over time-you clearly just lose interest from failure to communicate.There is a reason why Ihave been happily married for 27 years with my life partner and soul mate…because we both make an effort and communicate openly and honestly….I expect the same from friends who I tend to love as family and that is what life is about <3
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