Transformation – An Inevitable Phase

Transformation – An Inevitable Phase

4. STAY AWAY FROM THE TOXICITY –

TOXICITY OF YOUR OWN THOUGHTS…

Yes, You heard it right.

Many times, I see people start playing the same game with the respective person.

He made me feel bad now I will make him feel bad…How dare she do wrong to me I will teach her a lesson… (Sounds familiar, Right ?? ) 😉

By doing this you get nothing in return except wasting your time and energy behind this unwanted drama.

These toxic thoughts would trap you in the infinite loop of hatred which gives you nothing valuable in return.

Just TRUST THE KARMA THEORY and LET IT GO !!!

5. TRUST THE DIVINE PLAN –

People who do not deserve your love, affection, care exit from your life on their own.

It is just that, Universe makes a room for those who truly deserve you.

As I mentioned earlier, there is a reason behind every incident in your life which we can’t conclude now. This is the time when your faith in divinity comes into the picture.

Let things unfold at their own pace at the right time.

When you feel nothing is working out exactly this is the time when something deserving is embroidered for you as a part of a divine plan.

6. FIND THE BEST WAY OUT –

Whatever situation we are thrown into, it matters a lot how we can make the best way out of such a case.

We have no control over what will happen to us but we do have control over how we can react and act accordingly.

Instead of thinking about how you have been through the worst situation, just think about how you can use this situation to make yourself stronger and to grow further in life.

Remember, ‘Every cloud has a silver lining’.

7. FINALLY, IT IS “LESSON” TIME –

At last, what you have to do is finding what you learned from these experiences. There is always a space for learning from life experiences.

This is a task for you to reframe those learnings to become a person of value rather than becoming a person of success.

According to my opinion, it is a bad phase, bad people, bad experiences that make you wiser than you were before.

Take a chance to learn a new chapter to make the next chapter of life worth living.

8. BE PATIENT WITH HEALING TIME –

Take your own time to heal your hurt, to heal your emotional wounds.

Some may need to give two weeks, some may need two months, some may take two years to move on.

Therefore, trust the process and be patient with your own recovery period.

It is absolutely fine to get irritated and agitated if your subconscious brain is taking a bit longer time to come out of embedded pain.

Experiencing “mixed emotions” is a part of the process. Any process takes its own time to show desired outcomes. Trust the process !!!

Keep reminding yourself of this Thai proverb, “when you go, the road is rough; when you return, smooth”.

That’s all folks…

I tried coming up with every possible practical way which you can choose to follow for moving on.

I can guarantee you that your life will not be the same “Sad Story” as before once you work on the above mentioned pathways.

(Thank me later) 🙂

I carefully analyzed my own life experiences where people left me for no reason to finally arrive at these points.

I will be always grateful to these souls for leaving me and giving me important lessons in life.

Without those ugly experiences in my life, I wouldn’t have been in a position to guide you all through my writings. (My “Blessing in Disguise”)

On this note, let’s call it a day folks…

Thanks for taking out your precious time to go through my article. (I really mean it)

Ciao !!!


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