Finding our purpose and finding our bliss are used synonymously for a good reason. Our purpose is to be joyful, by doing things that make us happy. This is the best way of serving creation. This is all we need to do to be useful. If we can all manage to do this, despite the ups and downs and responsibilities of life, we have fulfilled our purpose. If we take responsibility for our own happiness, we make this world a better place, because happiness makes people kinder, more helpful, more generous.
How do we create it?
Make a list of things that you already know that make you happy. And start incorporating them into your schedule, no matter how busy you are. Do them for 5 minutes a day if that’s all you can manage. Just don’t wait for someone to do them with, or makes excuses about lack of time or money or wait for this project or this week to be over before you start. Be creative, find a way to get started. Once you do, more opportunities will open up.
Make a second list of things you have always found interesting and you think would make you happy. And start trying them, so you can perhaps add some of them to the list of things you know that make you happy.
This the best way of finding your purpose, because a purpose is something you are good at, which makes you incredibly joyful when you do it, and that joy inspires others to find theirs. It doesn’t have to make you money, don’t confuse profession with purpose, they can lovingly coexist. And don’t be surprised if you find many purposes, not just one! And while you are on the journey of finding your purpose through happiness, you are also creating more positive moments in your life on a daily basis, which gives you more energy to do all the things that have to be done, and you will be in a better mood when you do them. So when you look back at your life, there will be no regrets of not doing enough to make myself happy and having wasted most of life just doing what was required to get through life. This is what will make us feel more fulfilled and empowered and accomplished at the end of our lives.
Controlling partners often disguise their behavior as love or concern, making it difficult to recognize. Are you also in a relationship with someone who makes you feel loved at one point then in another constantly dictates your actions, thoughts, or even emotions?
These are classic signs of controlling partners. They often disguise their behavior as love or concern, making it difficult to recognize.
So if you want to identify these signs then below are what controlling partners do to you.
If you think you are in a marriage of convenience, you will know that it doesn’t feel like a fairy tale, rather it’s about maintaining the status quo. Maybe you are staying in this marriage because everything is “okay” and “stable”.
All the bills are getting paid on time, the house is comfortable, and the kids are happy to have both their parents under the same roof. Moreover, you don’t want to deal with the hassle that comes with filing for a divorce, so you just…stay.
Does this sound familiar? The unfortunate truth is that many married couples stay in a loveless marriage because dealing with the alternate option is scary. They’re together, but they’re not really together. They function more like roommates, business partners, or co-parents rather than lovers.
Knowing how to set boundaries is a game-changer—it’s how you protect your time, energy, and sanity without feeling guilty. Whether it’s with friends, family, or coworkers, setting boundaries helps you avoid burnout and unnecessary drama. Let’s talk about how to do it like a pro.
KEY POINTS
Upholding our boundaries means sometimes saying “no” when others wish we would say “yes.”
Setting boundaries can create conflict, even when our behavior is healthy and we act with kindness.
It’s normal to feel uneasy or even guilty after people react badly to our boundaries.
The month starts with Aquarius season in full swing, so it’s the perfect time to march to the beat of your own drum and forget about what anyone else thinks. The beginning of the month also brings a dreamy and almost magical energy between Venus, Neptune, and the North Node in Pisces. This is the vibe for deep, fated connections and romantic moments that feel straight out of a fantasy. Trust your gut—love is in the air, and it’s looking pretty rosy.
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The new moon in Aquarius is here to kick off a fresh lunar cycle! This powerful new moon, which happens on January 29 at 7:36 a.m. EST, brings a chance for new beginnings. As it falls in the innovative and forward-thinking sign of Aquarius, it’s a time to welcome change, creativity, and fresh ideas.
Aquarius is all about thinking outside the box, focusing on the bigger picture, and connecting with others. This new moon will highlight themes of friendship, community, and collaboration, making it a great time to set intentions related to teamwork and group activities.
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Some of us felt the pressure to grow up too fast… meet deadlines, succeed academically, and always be on top of things—before we were even ready. It turns out, this pressure is real for some children today, and it’s called Hurried Child Syndrome. Let’s explore more about this condition.
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