It is her grooming that made all the difference.
The role of grooming in our life
This aspect can be explained very nicely through the example of a plant that though it is true that if we sow a seed of an apple-tree, it would grow into an apple-tree only but it, by itself, does not ensure how healthy the plant may be.
How healthy the plant is going to be, also, depends on the how well the soil in which the seed had been sown had been manured, how much sunshine the plant gets exposed to and how well the plant gets irrigated all along its lifespan.
These are some of the things that do not depend on the date when the seed may have been sown or the date when the seed may have peeped out of the earth into open air.
How well the soil in which the seed had been sown had been manured; how much sunshine the plant would get exposed to and how well the plant would get irrigated all along by the gardener compares with what type of teachers may have taught us, in what sort of schools or colleges we may have studied and how much our parents may have supported us also besides what sort of decisions we may have taken in our life from time to time.
The way, how healthy a plant may be – does not depend only on the date when the seed may have been sown, things such as how well we are taken care of or are neglected by our parents and other acquaintances also does not depend merely on the day we may have born the way, for instance, Einstein’s mother should have helped his son get over his weaning problems.
The likely role of the karmas performed by us during our past life
Of course the reason why certain such things also, sometimes, happen in our life which we would have thought very much necessary to have averted but for some reason or another the circumstances dodge us to do not let us avert them – gives us a strong hint of the likelihood of a decisive role even the karmas performed by us during our past life, maybe playing in our life.
Or else why, at all, anybody should have to endure through a phase of life that he would have abhorred enduring but is not able to win over such a phase of life? It, clearly, suggests that only the profile of the karmas he should have performed during his past life should have been the fore-bearer of the tenebrous force that should have held him back from being able to avert such situations since beside such things the only other thing we can’t change in our life is – nothing but the “karmas performed by us during our past life”.