Stuart Motola

Stuart Motola specializes in helping individuals and couples attract and maintain a fulfilling partnership. He helps individuals attract who they seek (i.e. date more effectively), kill the voice of desperation and aloneness, and know the difference between a love that makes you big versus a love that makes you small. He teaches couples how to repair after conflict, cut unconscious cycles of projection and blame, communicate more responsibly, and to take risks to reignite passion and aliveness. Stuart has shared his expertise as a coach, author, speaker, and facilitator throughout the world and wrote the #1 Amazon best-selling book “Fixing You Is Killing Me: A Conscious Roadmap To Knowing When To Save And When To Leave Your Relationship.”

The Masculinity Myth: Why Men Need To Accept Their Femininity

A man is more empowered in his masculinity when he cultivates his feminine.

Why You’re The Real Problem In Your Relationship, Not Your Partner

Relationship Problems: When your partner's not the problem, maybe you are!

How To STOP Being A Nice Guy And Make Her Attracted and Connected To You

Are you being a nice guy? Is it killing your relationship? Here are 5 ways you can fix your relationship and make her attracted to you.

Relational Obedience: Why You Should NEVER Lose Yourself In Love

As you fall deeper in love with someone, you increasingly become afraid of losing them and to make sure they stay, you lose yourself in the relationship.

Can Hiding Hard Feelings Affect Your Relationship?

We lock our hearts away to stay safe and ironically, it makes us less safe. And over time, we lose one another.

How To Be The Man She Deserves

When Your Wife Challenges Everything Your Know About Being A Man

Finding Light In Darkness: How Vulnerability Strengthens Relationships

Showing your vulnerability is never easy, but when you do, it brings you closer to your partner and in a way strengthens your relationship.

Only Real Men Cry: Men Who Cry Are Not Weak, They Are Stronger

The fact is only real men cry. Only real men have the inner strength to look inside, accept their true feelings and find strength by being vulnerable. Men who cry are the real winners in life.

Why Girls Hate ‘Nice’ Guys

Sounds horrible. Why would a woman hate you for being nice?

The ONLY Way To Make Her Truly Happy And Fix Your Relationship

Most women only need one thing from their men to make them happy. It’s really simple.