Harris O’Malley

Harris O' Malley is a dating coach who provides geek dating advice at Paging Dr. NerdLove, as well as on Kotaku  and elsewhere. He and his work has been featured on Nightline, Vice, The Guardian, New York Magazine, The Huffington Post, Wired, Sex Nerd Sandra, Daily Life, Slate, The Austin-American Statesman, Austin Monthly, Geek and Sundry, Boing Boing, Everyday Feminism, Buzzfeed, The Daily Dot, The Washington Post, Kotaku, Lifehacker, NeilStrauss.com, The Good Man Project, MTV’s Guy Code, The Harvard Business Journal, and many others. Paging Dr. NerdLove has been featured as one of the top 10 dating blogs on DatingAdvice.com

You Don’t Owe Anything To Your Ex After A Breakup. Or May Be You Do.

Breakups can be very tricky. Sometimes we part ways amicably, while other times there is a lot of pain, anger, and hatred. No matter what, most of the times there is a lack of closure. But does that mean you owe anything to your ex?

Was Breaking Up A Big Mistake?

Breakups suck. We have all been through it and know how hard it can kick us in the heart and the ego. But was the decision to the breakup was right or was it simply a big mistake?

Can A Long Distance Relationship With Your Online Crush Work?

So you meet someone online and find them attractive. There is an instant spark and you want to date them. But they live in another country. Does this relationship have a shot? Well, you are definitely not alone.

The White Knight Syndrome: Understanding and Overcoming It

Do you have white knight syndrome? If yes, know how to rescue yourself from it.

5 Signs Your Relationship Is Already Over and It’s Time To Let Go

Sometimes there’s that vague sense that things are wrong as you both try to half-heartedly keep things going because that’s what you’re supposed to do, right?

What Bad Boys Know That Nice Guys Don’t

Understanding the underpinnings of why women seem to go for bad boys – even when they say they want nice guys.

5 Things Men Do That Make Them Less Attractive

Attractiveness is summed up by your looks but being attractive is far more complicated than that.