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How A Narcissist Deals With A Break-up: The 6 Stages and After Effects


Remember that you are a drug

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No matter how long you’ve been together, the narcissist will always act like they control everything you do. No matter what lines you draw, they’ll overstep them and simply ask for your forgiveness later. It’s nice to believe that they keep coming back because they really love you and want to be with you. But more often than not, you’re just a way to feed their addiction.



Ever since the break-up, they’ll try to continue the cycle of tearing you down and building you back up before tearing you down again. So, don’t give them any opportunities to reestablish themselves.

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It will be tempting to believe that they really have changed but as soon as you relent, they’ll go back to their old ways. They’re only in it for the games they can play to retain their control over you.


In conclusion…

Mentally prepare yourself for the insanity that will ensue when you break up with them. If you stay strong, they will eventually lose heart and probably go off looking for another victim.

Just remind yourself that you are worthy of a love that they cannot provide because they care for no one else but themselves. They do not deserve you and there is no reason for you to continue suffering.

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  1. Be ready and stand firm in your having separated from them.
    Especially if they are related to you or live near you.
    They will pit people against you (playing the victim), all the while building ‘their team’ against you.
    Continue to be you…don’t defend others will figure them out.
    It’s a process.

  2. This is crazy I’m dealing with one spent over 8 years with this man an when I left it was the begging me to come back an the whole time on a dating web site in 6 months I have had him in court 2 times trying for an injunction but failed car in both our names I make payments on ahead on my payments an he took my name off took the car he does not need it he has 2 trucks tells some people I was behind on my payments tells others he took it from me to give to his new girlfriend an she ended up runny also he is not all there civil court coming up to get my car back but a lot of what your saying is so right but him he is a mixture it’s crazy


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Mykh Goldstein
I am a writer and an artist currently working on my first novel. I am also an avid blogger with a keen interest in spirituality, astrology and self development.