(7) You feel that the relationship is more like an obligation for them:
From making plans to do something or asking them to go somewhere with you, you are the one who is taking the initiatives. You are the one who is doing everything to keep the relationship alive. Their ignorance and indifference make you feel that the relationship has become an obligation for them. And if you are feeling so, then probably, it is the reality. Perhaps it’s better to let them be on their own.
(8) You have to justify their behaviour to your peers:
Your family and friends are always questioning their behaviour and you have to force yourself in justifying them. When someone truly loves you, it shows. People understand. You don’t have to act like their lawyers.
Holding on to one-sided love is painful; it exhausts us. Letting go is difficult but sometimes, it’s the best decision for our own good.
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