The casual consistent hookup that never turned into more.
The emotional connection where you each knew something was there but you left it ambiguous.
The what if.
The hardest relationships to get over will always be the ones that don’t meet the definition of what a real relationship actually was but everything felt the same.
To sit here and tell anyone what they felt wasn’t justified or acceptable just because it didn’t turn out how they hoped it would, would be like telling every person who has ever been dumped they aren’t allowed to be sad about it.
The only difference between these two types of relationships was some label.
But justifying how someone feels based on labels is complete and total bullshit when I love you means the exact same thing.
Sometimes we end up loving the people who weren’t entirely ours more than we did those who gave us that title. Pinning after the person we wanted even if they were the last one we needed.
The what if factor. The maybe. The one day.
They leave you with a hope you don’t ever truly let go of.
It’s people who haunt us years after the fact.
The moments we wonder could something still happen.
You hate yourself for admitting it but if they one day wanted you, you let them have you even with the pain they’ve caused.
When real relationships end there’s this odd comfort with a start and finish.
But with the other relationship, you don’t get closure. You’re left with all of these feelings that didn’t exactly go away, you were just left to let them linger within you.
Real relationships get a goodbye and you heal.
But the other relationship you just have to move forward and at any moment that person can come waltzing back into your life as they did often and those feelings resurface again.
You don’t get healing with the person you never dated.
You just learn to live with this pain that becomes comfortably numb.
My name is Kirsten Corley. Both writer by day, hopeless romantic by night live my life with a simple motto. ‘What can I do for you’ I believe our lives are only as good as the people who’s lives you make better. I strive to help readers gain an understanding of intense emotions, like heartbreak and getting through it. I think together we have the ability to overcome the challenges life throws our way and even in those times you hit rock bottom, I see it as a wonderful platform to begin again.
When God blocks a relationship no matter how hard you try, it’s going to hit a dead end, sooner or later. But before the final split, God also sends signs that it’s time to leave; know more here!
Are you wondering “Is God telling me to break up with my boyfriend or girlfriend?” If such a thought has crept into your mind, chances are you’re already seeing the signs and can feel it in your heart that something is not right.
But before we begin, we would like to clear something up. By “God”, we are not referring to any specific religion, but the Universe, Spirit, or Source energy which is beyond any labeling.
When talking about signs from God about relationships, please take what resonates and leave what doesn’t. This blog is written from a spiritual perspective, taking into account advice fr
Have you been trying your hand at planning date nights? Date nights are the perfect opportunity to unwind and connect with your partner, but how can you make it truly special and unforgettable?
This article is going to talk about four science-backed ideas that can help you plan the perfect date night, ensuring you both have an experience that’s not only fun but meaningful.
KEY POINTS
Engaging in exciting new activities together boosts excitement and mimics the feeling of falling in love.
Movie nights can improve relationships by fostering open and safe communication.
Do you believe in long distance relationships? If you’re in one, you must know how satisfying and equally challenging it can get. Understanding how to make long distance relationships work, can, therefore, be the most important thing for you, right now!
Successful long-distance relationships (LDRs) are proof that even in today’s fast paced world of speed dating, ghosting, and phubbing, for some people at least, love is still about emotions, feelings, patience, values, faith, and trust.
For them, distance, carnal desires, and instant gratification don’t matter; what matters is to be true to their heart’s de
Ever looked at your partner and, out of nowhere, felt the ick? The way they chew, the way they breathe, even the way they exist near you suddenly feels unbearable. If this sounds familiar, you might be experiencing Sudden Repulsion Syndrome (SRS). Here’s a breakdown of what it might mean in your relationship!
This strange phenomenon can strike out of nowhere, especially in long-term relationships or marriage. One day, everything feels normal, and the next, you can’t stand being around your partner. But why does this happen? More importantly, how do you overcome it?
What Is Sudden Repulsion Syndrome In Marriage or Long-term Relationships?
Do you love hard? And did it push your partner away, instead of pulling them closer? If yes, then you might be dealing with an avoidant! So, how to get an avoidant ex back? Let’s find out!
Reconnecting with an ex is challenging enough! To top it all off, if your ex is someone with an avoidant attachment style, you have your work cut out for you.
Avoidants can’t handle emotional pressure or demands. They are hyper independent people who value their personal space a little bit too much.
And if you’re someone with an anxious attachment style, then chances are you have come on too strong, and scared them off.
Being mean to your partner doesn’t always look like full-blown fights or throwing personal insults around. More often than not, it’s those little, unintentional habits that slowly chip away at your relationship, and by the time you notice them, it’s already too late.
You might be under the impression that you are simply joking around or being honest with them, but have you ever asked your partner if they feel the same way as you? Maybe there are signs you are the toxic partner, but you have never really stopped and thought about it.
We all screw up sometimes, but recognizing the problem is the first step to fixing it. So, let’s break down some of the sneaky ways you might be being mean to your partner—without even realizing it.
We all know who messy modern relationships can be. Swipe right, swipe left, ghosting, breadcrumbing, situationships – it’s a circus out there and things are getting even crazier! In the midst of all this, exists something called “agape love”. Today, we are going to talk about what it is and the signs of agape love.
So, what keeps some relationships rock-solid when everything else feels disposable? It’s agape love. And once you experience and understand the characteristics of agape love in your life, it’s like an eureka moment.
You realize that true and unconditional love is more than butterflies and romantic gestures; it’s more about being there when it matters the most, even when things may seem tough.
Let’s first try to understand what is the meaning of agape love really.
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