When I talk about empathy, I’m not talking about the kind of empathy an ordinary person feels. I’m specifically referring to people born with the gift of being empaths. The more powerful a woman empath is, the harder it gets for men to figure her out. Most guys won’t be able to understand the depth of her love and care for those who are around her. They don’t realize how wonderful her sensitivity is and how precious it is to be born with a gift like hers. Initial difficulties and external factors will make them give up without really trying. Unfortunately, they are missing out on some of the best people in the world.
Here are the things men can’t deal with in a female empath:
1. Strong Sense of Independence
Society keeps telling men that they are the strong ones, the protectors of the fairer sex. Many can’t fathom what it is like to be with a woman who is strong enough to fend for herself. A female empath would already have shouldered burdens that men can’t imagine lifting and just because she wants a commitment doesn’t mean she wants a bodyguard.
2. High Expectations
As a witness to all that is wrong in this world, a woman with the power of empathy will always set high moral standards for herself. ‘Do no harm’ are the words she lives by and she expects the same passion and commitment from those close to her. She won’t accept any of the excuses that some men make for their behavior.
3. Her Own Savior
Her empathy doesn’t make her a broken thing. Life is more difficult for such women, yes, but they’re no man’s charity project. She doesn’t need a man to step up and save her. The weight of her ability is hers alone to bear and no one else can know what carrying it feels like. Being well aware of her own power, she’ll only blow a man’s ego to bits if he underestimates her.
4. Observant And Critical
Empaths are deeply observant and they don’t take anything at face value. To truly understand a situation, they have to know all that has happened and many men don’t like having to face that kind of critical questioning. But it is necessary for an empath so that she can have peace of mind rather than just feeling like something is off.
5. Passion, Intensity, Commitment
Doing things by halves is not an empath’s style. A female empath will pour her heart and soul into everything she does and this includes all of her relationships. They look for the deeper meaning behind each and every little interaction and when they commit to someone, they commit for a lifetime. A lot of people can’t live up to these expectations and some might not be strong enough to tie themselves to another person in that manner. This is really unfortunate because if a female empath loves you, she will love you with every fiber of her being.
6. Staring Into Your Soul
The gift of empathy allows these women to look at a person and see the truth about them. Facades and bluster don’t fool them. They’ll see all that is beautiful and all that is ugly within a man and judge him accordingly. If he tries to hide something from them, they’ll figure out that something is being held back almost instantly and this can make some men feel very unnerved. A female empath won’t blindly trust anything anyone says.