When you are with someone who only cares about sex, and doesn’t care a bit about your feelings, then you are dating a fuckboy in disguise. Such men might seem like a dream come true initially, but with every passing day, you will see that being with them was one of the worst decisions you could have ever made.
“Women! They madly love Casanovas for their traits and equally hate them for being disloyal.” ― Himmilicious, Lemon Tea and White Safari.
‘Everything’s fair in love and war’ is often taken seriously by many men. In the act of dating, these men believe they can do anything and everything when it comes to love, and playing games doesn’t make them feel guilty. They are such pros in this that it’s very difficult to identify them.
Fuckboys in disguise, they are better known as ‘Casanova’. They will sweep you off your feet with their charm, talk to you as if you are the Princess of this world and then when you have finally given them what they wanted, they will abandon you as if you don’t even exist.
You are probably wondering now how is it possible to identify such a person. Well, you don’t need to worry.
Here Are 11 Signs You Are Dating A Fuckboy in Disguise
(1) He doesn’t post his personal details on social media.
He is always against posting his pictures or your couple pictures on social media. He gives you the excuse that he wants to keep his life private but don’t buy that excuse. He is just playing safe. He doesn’t want his other interests to know he is dating someone.
(2) He is always busy.
We all have our work but if we really want to be with someone, we can definitely make time for them. Busy is just an excuse. He will only meet you when he wants, not when you want. This is a clear-cut sign that you are dating a fuckboy.
(3) He is very charming and well-groomed.
You feel he is the real-life version of Prince Charming. He is very conscious of his looks and always maintains himself. He needs this to attract women and your falling in love with him doesn’t count.
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(4) He speaks with flamboyance.
He is an amazing speaker. You can spend your day listening to him. Of course, he needs to be good with words so that he can manipulate girls into trusting him and falling for him.
(5) He never finds time to call you.
Calling someone over the phone is an indication that the person really wants to be with someone. When you talk to someone over the phone, you get to hear that person’s voice, feel their vibration and emotion. Texting is rather a very casual and careless way of informal communication. If he doesn’t call you, then it’s time you start thinking about your relationship.
(6) He hasn’t introduced you to his peers.
Another way to spot the fuckboy in disguise. He has never introduced you to his family and friends. Even if you express your wish to see them, he would avoid the topic. This indicates he is not serious and hence, doesn’t want his close people to know about you.
(7) He is not ready for something else more than friendship.
He wants to remain your good friend but doesn’t wish to go beyond that. No matter what he says, perhaps it will be better if you don’t believe him because by remaining good friends, he will still try to take advantage. The fact that he is not ready for a relationship means he doesn’t want commitment and wishes to live a life without commitment.
(8) He always wants to talk about sex.
You might want to have a strong sexual bonding with him and you like his talks on sex but this is alarming too. If the guy you are dating is always talking about sex, then it means he just wants sex, nothing else. He is a fuckboy in disguise.
(9) He always says he is single.
He tells you that he doesn’t want to disclose his personal life but claiming to be single to everyone is a sign which indicates he is keeping his other option open. By claiming to be single, he is giving other women the space to hook up with him.
(10) He has a lot of female friends.
We live in a progressive society and it’s not a sin to have friends of the opposite gender. But, if you have too many female friends and you are always chatting with them on social media, then this is something you need to be cautious of. Having too many female friends and simultaneously making new ones is an indication that he is interested in exploring them to meet his desires. So he is definitely a fuckboy in disguise.
(11) He is known to be a womanizer.
Sometimes, rumors have a core which is actually true. If he is known to be a womanizer, then you better be cautious. If people are saying a lot of bad things about him, then there must be something wrong with him.
Don’t go by his charm. Think logically. He is nothing more than a fuckboy in disguise.
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