Homophobes/transphobes are evil. And bigots, while not every time, are evil quite often.
Be conscious of these types of people. Some are only misleading, but many are outright malevolent.
Evil people are just as capable of showing kindness as any malevolent behavior, but what truly sets them apart is the price that comes with their kindness.
Often times, evil people will be kind to you only to get something they need from you later, be it money, sex, subservience, or worse.
Make it clear if they try to manipulate you based on their past kindness that kindness doesn’t come with a price tag.
You don’t need any motivation or incentivization to do the right thing and to be kind to one another.
Truly kind people are kind without the expectation of getting anything in return.
One of the worst manipulations of an evil person are the emotional manipulations.
Usually, this comes in the form of being belittled.
Belittling comes in a lot of different forms too. It can be playing the victim when you haven’t done anything wrong.
Ridiculing your appearance, your body, your interests, your hopes, your hobbies, your goals, your friends, your house, your dreams – anything really can be belittled in the eyes of an evil person.
Don’t let malevolent people change your opinion of yourself and the decisions you’ve made.
Simply say, “I’m sorry you aren’t happy with that part of my life, but it is important to me.” And that’s that.
14. Confusion and Conflict
In the same way that evil people use the aforementioned tactics to split up good people, they’ll utilize chaos, confusion, and conflict to their benefit.
The more scattered, scared, and unsure you are, the more power they’re going to have over you.
You can fight back against this by being level-headed and secure in yourself, even when you don’t fully understand what’s going on in your life and your world.
Often times, evil people are the ones who are putting all that confusion and conflict into your life in the first place. Don’t fall into their trap.
No matter what’s happening, keep a cool demeanor. Use a level-headed approach to handling conflict and confusion in your life.
15. Double Lives
Malevolent people will never reveal their true lives to you.
Saying they lead double lives is a huge understatement. They lead hundreds of lives.
They are whoever they need to be to get what they want.
They are a different person to everyone. They have a well-devised history and image they are trying to portray.
The only common thing about all of them is that no one truly knows who they are.
16. No Boundaries
Evil people are persistent, gregarious, intense, clingy, and fake.
In a lot of ways, they’re like boomerangs. No matter how hard you throw them out of your life, they always wind up circling back around to you.
But only if you let them. You see, an evil person will try and manipulate you into opening the door and letting them back in.
But there are dire consequences to doing this, and a malevolent person will gladly take off their jacket, kick off their shoes, and park themselves in front of the TV if you let them back in (so to speak).
One thing is certain: no matter what when you kick an evil person out of your life, they’ll always try to work their way back in. It’s inevitable, but it can be prevented.
Don’t Be Afraid To Remove Them From Your Life!
No matter how persistent, gregarious, intense, clingy, and fake an evil person is, they can always always always be booted from your life for good.
They’ll use every tool at their disposal to force you to let them stay.
They’ll manipulate, they’ll lie, they’ll pretend to be nice, they’ll attack and belittle, they’ll mislead and control.
But one thing is for sure, no matter what when you’ve made the call to give them the boot from your space, your circle, and your life, you can never go back on it.
They’ll try to get you to change your mind, but the only way to liberate yourself from them is to leave them behind.
An evil person can change, but they can only do it on their own. And you can’t force them to change.
They can only change when their hearts are open, they’re ready to atone for what they’ve done, and they’re ready to work hard at reforming their malevolent ways.
Source – Higher Perspective