When it comes to love, lots of people tend to push others away, sometimes without even realizing that they are doing so. Your zodiac sign can sometimes hold the key to the biggest reason why you push people away, which might end up saving you from heartbreak.
What would love be without a little heartbreak?
You have to kiss a few frogs before you find your Prince Charming (or Cinderella).
Getting your heart broken can be one of the most painful things you ever feel. Whether someone cheats on you, someone passes away, or the love of your life leaves you — there’s no way to spin it, it’s awful.
You might think that if you see it coming, the pain might be more manageable … but heartbreak is heartbreak. Whether you’re blindsided by the whole thing or you’ve picked up on signs ahead of time, you still gave your heart to a person who decided they don’t want it anymore.
It sounds harsh — I know. But, you’re not alone in feeling this way. Just about everyone can say they’ve had their heart broken at one time or another and no one escapes unscathed. The good news is that there’s usually a lesson to be learned. You can always take something away from a negative experience to make your future relationships better.
And without ever feeling heartbreak, we can’t fully appreciate good love when we have it.
It just goes to show that you can really put a positive spin on anything in life if you look hard enough for the silver lining. Does heartbreak hurt like hell? Of course, it does. Are you going to get through it? Absolutely.
We all have weaknesses, and — unfortunately — they tend to be quite noticeable in relationships which can sometimes mean we’re going to get hurt in all sorts of ways.
We look toward the stars to help us learn what our weaknesses really are because when we are born can tell us a lot about our personalities and how we deal with challenges in relationships.
To help you prepare for the inevitable heartbreak you’ll face, we’re sharing the number one reason you push people away and — based on your zodiac sign.
1. Aries (March 21-April 19)
Aries, your mood swings put a real damper on your relationships. At first, your significant other says that they can handle you at your best AND at your worst, but they don’t realize what they signed up for.
Just as soon as you start to get attached, they discover they bit off more than they can chew. The only way this ends is with inevitable heartbreak, sorry.
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2. Taurus (April 20-May 20)
Taurus is a good partner at the beginning of a relationship, so the other person is caught completely by surprise when you become clingy and overly obsessive.
You drive them away with your possessiveness because you constantly seek their attention and become super needy. You become so attached that being broken up will rip your heart right out of your chest.
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3. Gemini (May 21-June 20)
Geminis are so inconsistent that their partner has no idea whether the relationship is serious or not. You’re nervous about putting yourself out there, but ultimately it’s the reason you get your heartbroken.
Your significant other usually ends things with you before you have the chance to end things with them.
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4. Cancer (June 21-July 22)
Cancer constantly needs their partner to reassure that they love you and that they don’t want anyone else. They are always driven by deep insecurity and because of this, you become very suspicious of their actions and what they do when you’re not around.
If you keep this up, it won’t be long before they’ve had enough of it and end things.
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5. Leo (July 23-August 22)
You’re often very full of yourself and your partner picks up on it sooner or later. They may just think it’s charming confidence at first, but after a while, they start to notice that it’s more than that.
Your arrogance can drive a wedge between you and your significant other, leaving you with a broken heart.