Ever found yourself captivated by a powerful woman? Buckle up because weโre about to dive into 11 essential things you absolutely need to know about loving a strong woman!
Loving a strong independent woman can be an incredibly rewarding experience, but itโs not without its quirks and nuances.
Whether sheโs a powerhouse in her career, exudes confidence in her passions, or fearlessly stands up for what she believes in, there are a few things you should know when dating a strong woman!
So how to love a strong woman? Letโs jump in and explore what it takes to make this extraordinary journey of loving a strong independent woman!
11 Things To Know About Loving A Strong Woman
1. Sheโs not afraid to fly solo
Because she likes her own company, sheโs willing to hold out for the right relationship. Staying single doesnโt bother her, but the idea of getting stuck in the wrong relationship is downright terrifying.
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She realizes that sheโs not doing anyone any favors by settling down with the wrong person. This also means that if you screw up big time, you donโt get another shot. When sheโs done with you, sheโs DONE.
2. If you make her deal with drama, sheโll show you the door
This includes but is not limited to, exposure to your exes, cheating, possessive behavior, bad boy behaviors and narcissism. She values herself too much to be treated poorly and will kick you to the curb if you expect her to deal with it.
3. Sheโll stay fiercely loyal to you as long as you hold up your end of the bargain
Sheโs good on her word. If you treat her well, you wonโt have to worry about her cheating or lying to you. Sheโll love you with all sheโs got if you can give as good as you get.
4. Sheโll see right through your player B.S.
Try to neg her (pick up artist-speak for subtly insult), and sheโll eat you alive. She has a great deal of self respect and will NOT like you more if you insult her or try to manipulate her.
This woman has plans, goals, and passions all of her own. Try to make her pine for your attention and you will find yourself lonely.
5. Sheโs going to tell you whatโs on her mind
Sheโs direct (but not mean). You can take comfort in knowing exactly where you stand with her. She just doesnโt have the time or energy to think about being passive-aggressive and wonโt want to deal with that from you either.
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6. She doesnโt care much about other peopleโs approval
When it comes to other peopleโs opinions, she knows that what other people think of her is none of her business. Sheโs too busy working on making her life awesome to let herself get sidelined by criticism.
7. She respects goals, passion, drive, and effort
She loves to surround herself with other driven people who have serious goals and passions. She would never, ever sacrifice her dreams for you, but she wonโt make you take a back seat either.
Sheโs no stranger to working hard to reach her goals, so she understands the process and is extremely likely to honor your individual passions.
8. She doesnโt care how much you make
Because sheโs already self reliant, she doesnโt really give a toss about how much you make. What she DOES care about deeply is what you do with what you have, your future goals and whether you treat her well.
Itโs always more about your effort and the way you treat her than the dollar amount in your bank account.
9. Her standards are high, but thatโs because she holds herself to them
Since sheโs such a badass in her own right, she expects you to keep up. Sheโs rare, so if you act lukewarm about your feelings about her, sheโll simply move on to someone who treats her as well as sheโs willing to treat someone else in return.
10. It makes her gag when you act helpless
You know that whole โoh my gosh, I just donโt know what Iโm doing?โ routine? Sheโll see right through that and hate you for it. If you act like a boy, sheโll treat you like one.
That will be unpleasant for both of you. You wonโt catch her acting helpless, so she doesnโt respect others who act that way either (male or female).
11. Sheโs deeply and completely worth it
This kind of relationship will stretch you, challenge you and make you into a better version of yourself. Not because she requires it, but simply because being around her is inspiring.
Dare to be inspired. ?
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So, here concludes the guide to dating a strong woman. Are you up for the challenge? Feel free to share your insights in the comments section!
Written by Elizabeth Stone
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