To My Toxic Half, This is My Final Bow and Last Goodbye

To My Toxic Half, This is my Final Bow and Last Goodbye

Last Goodbye To My Toxic Half

“You turned out to exactly who they said you were. I never pretended to be someone else. And it was me that was hurt…I know that guy is somewhere deep inside you, but, I can’t wait for him. Because waiting for you, is like waiting for rain in a drought. Useless and disappointing.” – A Cinderella Story

To My Toxic Half, This is my Final Bow and Last Goodbye

It breaks me to say the last goodbye to you, my toxic half. In fact, I wanted with every fiber of my being for us to make it. I wanted the words you say not to be lies. I wanted to prove that your reputation wasn’t what everyone said it was. I wanted everyone to be wrong about you.

And maybe one day they will be. Maybe I’ve given up too soon. Maybe one day you’ll be the man I pretended you were all this time. In fact, I know you will be one day. So maybe that’s why I hung on so long.

But I want you to know I forgive you for all of it.

But despite forgiving you, I can’t sit here and wait for you to become the person you need to be. The cost is self-destruction in the process. The cost is you hurting me to get there.

I can’t sit here and wait for the respect I deserved this whole time. I can’t sit here and wait to be loved when I’m giving the best of myself. I can’t sit here playing a game. It’s like a game of Jumanji. Either something is going to kill me along the way, or I’ll finish.

I don’t have it in me to finish. And honestly, I think right now I’m living only half alive because of you. Cause you’ve chewed up and spit out everything I am. And I’m not the same person that I was before I fell in love with you. I didn’t know to fall in love with you, would mean falling on the ground so often, only to be kicked every time I got to my knees.

I forgive you for your past mistakes. I forgive you for the person you were. I know you may not be him anymore or maybe you’re on the road to bettering yourself. But, that same toxic person turned everything black in its path, myself included.

I didn’t deserve to be used. I didn’t deserve being talked to the way you did. I didn’t deserve the fights and the screaming and the tears. While I didn’t deserve those things, I tolerated it. I tolerated it and in time it felt like a norm. That’s on me.

I valued the good days we had because I was so glad it wasn’t a bad one.

You kept me on edge though. You kept me walking on eggshells. I’d stare at a phone with bubbles that went on for minutes, only to have them disappear and nothing was said. It was like you knew I was staring at it, just waiting. Then I’d say something and you’d ignore me…Because I was inconvenient for you.

Do you know what was inconvenient for me? Waking up every night at 2 am in a cold sweat, wondering what I’m doing in this relationship. But it wasn’t even defined as a relationship really. One day you liked me and another day you hated me. One day we were “just friends” and the next day you’d laugh in my face, saying we never can be just friends and I knew it. You were neither friend, but certainly a foe. Every sign and every friend told me to let you go.

Do you know what it’s like to look at someone you love, with all your heart and believe in them despite everyone’s doubt?

20 thoughts on “To My Toxic Half, This is My Final Bow and Last Goodbye”

  1. Wow!! Thank you.. my thoughts exactly!! Why do I keep asking myself if it’s the right thing to do????

  2. Have a little more faith and trust on each other, despite the distance and challenge, will always be ur family’s child with your favorite of cheese in heart, it would be brilliant to just add salt and pepper together at last and hopefully it will be. Miss

  3. This page gets in me so deep.. but anyways .. to my love… I love you so much… im sorry if I fail you some times but the reasons is of time constraints… you are always in my mind.. you are more than love ,you are life. In a lifetime… you know that.♡♡♡♡.

  4. The author sadly fell in love with nothing but a shadow of a man.
    A mere mirage.
    “… the devil doesn’t come dressed in a red cape and pointy horns. He comes as everything you’ve ever wished for …”

    Run fast and far my love for “the narcissist” is incapable of any feelings whatsoever, let alone love.
    Broken hearts heal, but you’ll never be the same!

  5. Life is just for once. Respect and appreciating is prime in every relationship. Good you made the choice at least now…be alone is better than being in a messy relationship.

  6. You’ve got to watch out if the respect and appreciation you deserve is there right from the start, and if you don’t see them, walk away without regret because you know you deserve the best!!

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