However, this is not really a difficult challenge for you as you can easily understand people and their psyche simply by closely observing them. Accordingly, you reveal a particular side of your personality to a person. You only show a version of yourself that they can relate and feel comfortable with. This helps you make people like you more and easily.
This unique skill can be exceptionally useful. However, that doesn’t mean you are fake or deceitful. It simply means you are cautious about how you present yourself to people and how they perceive you. But this can often make you more mysterious than necessary. As nobody truly knows you completely, they fail to understand you on a deeper level.
This can be a problem as you want to be understood by the people you love, especially your partner. As you are a complicated individual, it becomes very difficult for your partner to know or understand you, especially as you only show particular aspects of your personality to them. But once you give them the opportunity and time, they will definitely understand you. All you need to do is be patient and reveal every facet of yourself to them in all its glory. You will be loved, adored and appreciated.
2. The person in the coat: You need to feel accepted
If you noticed the man in the coat in the above image then it means you have profound inner sadness. Although it may not hint at depression, it means that you feel a deep rooted sadness inside your heart. You have a clear understanding of the reality of life and realize that the balance between happiness and sadness is crucial for a meaningful existence. You know what begins will come to an end, just like everything in life, and this enables you to appreciate even the little things in life.
In a relationship, you need complete acceptance from your romantic partner. In dating and relationships, you haven’t managed to find the person who will accept you wholeheartedly and love you for who you truly are. Most of your former partners were unable to understand your melancholic nature as they were more focused on ‘fixing’ you. You need someone who can value and appreciate your deep understanding of life and death and see the real beauty in your sad personality.
3. The baby on the table: You need to feel nurtured
Did you see the baby first? If you have, then it means you usually feel helpless in relationships and life. It’s not that you don’t know how to be responsible, take charge or take care of yourself. However, you feel vulnerable and believe that things might head south anytime. You feel anxious & stressed easily and most of the time you feel sleep deprived. You have made crying a habit and you find some solace in letting your tears flow at least once a week.
You need to feel loved and nurtured in a relationship. That is what your heart truly wants from a loving, caring partner. That doesn’t mean you need a babysitter. You need a partner who will understand you and will be aware of your emotional needs. You need someone who will care for you deeply, make you feel safe, secure and protected. Someone who will support you through the thick and thin of life. You want someone who will always stand by your side and make life feel less burdensome. You need a strong person who will be the pillar in your life and carry you to bed so that you can sleep peacefully every night knowing there’s someone you can trust to take care of you.