Do have big dreams? Do you daydream more than you take action? Do you constantly lose focus and struggle to get back on track? Then you need to consider a few things about yourself first if you wish to change start taking action and stop drifting around.
The time I spent in grad school was one of the most exciting periods of my life. It was also one of the most dangerous.
Once a week, I would drive about 100 miles to the seminary where I was taking courses. The drive to the seminary in the early morning was fine, but the drive back at night was a killer. After sitting in class all day, I would get extremely drowsy and sometimes start drifting off the side of the road.
Drifting is dangerous, whether it’s happening in a car or in your creative life.
There are several reasons we start to drift: being too busy, feeling overwhelmed, not having clarity in your life, or just plain being tired.
Whatever the reasons, the end result of drifting is the same: we lose focus and start heading toward the danger zone of confusion and frustration.
So how can we stop drifting and get back on track?
Instead of offering “one size fits all” solutions, I want to offer four great questions can help us think about critical issues and clarify our direction. They are designed to spur your thinking about your overall direction in life, as well as a more specific direction for your creative work.
4 Questions To Help You Stop Drifting and Get Back In Track
1. The question of identity: WHO AM I?
The familiar phrase “Know thyself” is attributed to Socrates (but actually predates him). Regardless of who said it first, it is a piece of wisdom every artist should follow. If you don’t know who you truly are, you won’t carve out your unique place in the universe and make the art only you can make.
If you don’t know who you truly are, you won’t carve out your unique place in the universe.
When I speak of knowing yourself, I’m specifically talking about three items: your personality, your skills, and your spiritual gifts. When you know how you’re wired and what your skills are (and aren’t), it frees you up to truly be yourself. It also releases you from the obligation of trying to be someone you’re not.
This is why I’m a big advocate of personality and spiritual gift inventories. It’s much better to work with your personality and gifting than against it.
2. The question of purpose: WHY AM I HERE?
This question deals with your purpose and calling.
When you dive into the issue of “Why am I here?” things can get existential pretty quickly. But I like to keep things practical, so here I’m referring to your creative purpose (the ultimate aim of what you want to accomplish), as well as your spiritual creative calling (what God is calling you to do vocationally). There is definitely some overlap between these areas, but they are separate enough to warrant their own categories.
When you are clear about your purpose and calling, you have a sense of mission and momentum that will help keep you going despite obstacles. After all, your calling isn’t so much something you decided to do on your own; rather, it’s what God has put into your heart to accomplish.
The great writer Frederick Buechner said, “The place God calls you to is the place where your deep gladness and the world’s deep hunger meet.” I can’t think of a better way to define your purpose.
The place God calls you to is the place where your deep gladness and the world’s deep hunger meet. –Frederick Buechner
3. The question of audience: WHO AM I SERVING?
This is an area where many artists and creative people get hung up. In the Christian community, we are pretty good at helping people have a sense of purpose and mission. But defining your audience is a whole different ballgame.
Sometimes we are reluctant to define a specific audience for our creative work because it feels like we are leaving people out. But the harsh reality is that not every single person will be interested in your work anyway. At any given time, you will only reach a portion of the population. If you’re only going to reach some and not all, why not make an intentional choice and be more successful?