How did I Marry a Narcissistic Husband? The story is similar for most women who marry a narcissist: Boy meets girl; boy sweeps girl off her feet; boy marries girl; boy changes soon after. A narcissist can be very intense at the beginning of a relationship and bombard you with love and at placing you on a pedestal. It’s easy to fall in love with a narcissist. However, his true personality starts to reveal itself as the wife endures his criticism, insults, possible beatings, or other forms of abuse. Loving and living with a narcissist takes a heavy toll; the wife takes years of abuse and loses her sense of self-worth and remains submissive to his demands. Being married to a narcissist is like walking on eggshells. You don’t know what will cause an outburst or provoke his wrath.
Some people know what they have, yet they lose the thing they loved the most.
It’s gonna hurt because its matters.
Thanks for the darkness, I know now, how a ray of light feels like.