Relationships are not a simple matter of who likes whom.
There are so many nuanced layers that go into making a relationship work, that sometimes even an expert cannot put a name on every single one of them.
There is no set formula. No two people are alike, nor are two relationships like each other. Even you as a person are not the same in any two relationships you had in the past. The high school version of you is different than the college version and so on. Being human, we are constantly changing and so are our expectations as well as experiences in a relationship.
All this might make you believe that love is a complex code which can never be cracked. But that’s not what we are suggesting here. What is of importance here is that every relationship in your life would be different from the previous one and you need to learn from every single one of them. When you learn from your mistakes, you will be able to invest better in a new relationship.
Remember, no relationship can survive on the virtue of physical attraction alone.
You get a crush on someone who appeals to your eyes. That isn’t enough to build a life with them. You need to be emotionally attracted to them as well. Emotions bridge the gap when physical beauty fades away. And this is why growing emotionally is so important for healthy relationships. Two people might attract each other because of their good looks or mutual interests, but their emotional compatibility pretty much decides how the relationship would progress.
And even though there is no set formula, the following are signs of healthy emotional compatibility in a woman. And knowingly or not, men are attracted to these traits:
We, as humans are flawed. We need someone who is willing to overlook these flaws or help us work on them. Life is not easy. Every single day we go through a plethora of action-reaction scenarios, emotions, and frustrations. At the end of it, we need someone who’d understand us. Someone who is patient and willing to read between the lines, because she cares. It is easy for spouses to jump to conclusions especially with regards to words which were said. But one needs to think about the person’s mental condition before reacting on the words occurred. Patience in such situations goes a long way in ensuring a happy relationship.
Sadly in today’s word with all the airbrushed photos and advertisements which keep telling women how they aren’t perfect, it is quite rare to know a woman who is really confident in her own skin. And a woman who knows that, that she’s beautiful and sexy and her man doesn’t really notice if she’s put on a little weight during the holidays- is attractive as hell. Men actually care about a woman’s personality and nature and are not always stuck on the figure she has. A woman who has complete confidence in her body is more attractive than a Playboy centerfold.