When it comes to love, can you easily take the leap of faith or youโre afraid of falling in love? The following article sheds some light on how your zodiac sign plays a role in your fear of falling in love. Letโs see why youโre afraid of love based on your zodiac sign.
Breaking up is one of those things thatโs inevitable in most relationships, unfortunately. Some scientists have even argued that the brain reacts to heartbreak in ways similar to how it would react to physical pain or drug addiction.
For some, it can be a very difficult and emotionally draining process. Thereโs nothing worse than waking up one day knowing that the person you love is no longer yours. I, myself, am not good at dealing with heartbreak.
However, there are others who can move on from it without a scratch. Instead of letting the loss of someone special take over their lives, some people think the best way to get over a breakup is to simply continue living life as if nothing happened.
Aside from heartbreak, there are some people who are just afraid of being in love and falling into a committed relationship. I used to be this way for a long time, but I believe thereโs someone special out there for everyone, and even your horoscope is a good reminder of that.
If youโre in a relationship with someone whoโs still scared of the waters, maybe itโs time to show them why they shouldnโt be afraid โ or, better yet, get them to believe in love again.
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Here are the zodiac signs who are afraid of falling in love and getting their hearts broken, ranked from most to least.
The zodiac signs who are afraid of love and why they are afraid of falling in love:
1. Gemini (May 21 โ June 20)
Out of all the zodiac signs, Gemini handles breakups the best. Instead of obsessing over the past and things that you can no longer control, you like to plan for the future and focus on the things that make you happy.
When it comes to serious relationships, you prefer not to be in one. You have this fear of being weighed down and not being able to live the adventurous lifestyle youโve always lived.
Youโre like Barney from How I Met Your Mother: You prefer to have casual relationships. Once you feel like youโre ready to move on, youโll do so without hesitation.
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2. Sagittarius (November 22 โ December 21)
Heartbreak isnโt as messy for you as it may be for most people. You might be upset for a few days, but you move on easily Sagittarius.
Youโre actually the most easy-going when it comes to breakups. You like to deal with your pain and frustration by going out and having a good time. When youโre hurt, youโll laugh your way through it while trying to stay optimistic until youโve forgotten all about it.
3. Aries (March 21 โ April 19)
Youโre the most passionate and fierce of the zodiac signs, Aries. Youโre eager to jump into a relationship quickly and will love your partner with everything you have.
This makes heartbreak difficult for you to deal with when it does happen. However, you believe that everything happens for a reason. You wonโt let heartbreak faze you because you know that people come and go out of your life for a reason. This doesnโt make you any less enthusiastic about finding love, though. You know what (and who) is best for you, and once you realize who that is, youโll have nothing to fear.
4. Cancer (June 21 โ July 22)
You like to fight your battles on your own, Cancer. You view heartbreak as just a normal part of life, something that people shouldnโt obsess over.
Even when you are in genuine pain, you donโt let it interfere with your hard-working lifestyle. Youโll keep your mind focused on other things, and eventually just erase the whole thing from your conscious.
People might see you as emotionless and cold, but really youโre just very goal-oriented and donโt like to let your personal life get in the way of your responsibilities.
5. Libra (September 23 โ October 22)
Libra, youโre the most upbeat and positive when it comes to heartbreak. The first few days after a breakup can be hard for you, but you like to do everything you can to get yourself to forget about it.
You wonโt allow yourself to be down for too long and will always ask your ex if you can stay friends. If they donโt accept your offer, youโll wish them the best of luck and move on with your life.
Read 9 Reasons to Love a Libra and the One Secret they Keep
6. Virgo (August 23 โ September 22)
Real love is something that scares you a little bit, Virgo. You fear that if you reveal your imperfections to someone, theyโll run away from you. You have a lot of insecurities, which makes it hard for you to be okay with something serious.
Hence, moving on from a casual fling comes pretty easy for you. Youโd rather keep your emotions safe than put them in the hands of someone who could potentially destroy them.
7. Pisces (February 19 โ March 20)
Youโll put yourself through every emotion just to free yourself from heartbreak. Youโre not afraid to be vulnerable or show weakness, Pisces, you just want to get over your breakup as soon as possible.
You know that the best way to get through things is to deal with them head-on. Youโre brave, strong-willed, and always prepared to deal with any emotional battle that may come your way.
8. Aquarius (January 20 โ February 18)
You tend to have a tough time getting close to people, Aquarius. Once you do let someone in, it can be hard to stay strong emotionally once theyโve left you. Youโll let yourself grieve and be sad, but you wonโt let anyone else see it.
Youโll try to keep yourself occupied in hopes of forgetting about your pain, and sometimes this will actually work for you. Heartbreak is something you know youโll have to deal with at multiple points in your life, but that wonโt stop you from chasing after true love.
9. Scorpio (October 23 โ November 21)
You may be the most difficult zodiac sign to love, Scorpio, but youโre also one of the most sensitive. When dealing with heartbreak, you usually keep your feelings bottled up and put it all in the back of your head.
Youโll keep to your normal routine, and try your hardest to think about anything except your ex. Youโre afraid to face your emotions head-on because you know that once you steer your mind in that direction, itโll be even harder for you to get over things.
10. Leo (July 23 โ August 22)
As a Leo, you tend to stay hurt for longer than youโre willing to admit. You love and enjoy being in relationships. This is why you donโt mind putting yourself at risk for heartbreak. Youโll give your all to the person that youโre with, and even if they donโt reciprocate, you wonโt allow yourself to stay bitter for too long.
However, letting go of the pain can take a little longer for you. Youโll hang on to people for a long time, and even when you have everyone believing that everythingโs okay, eventually all the hurt will catch up to you and youโll be forced to deal with it.
11. Capricorn (December 22 โ January 19)
Itโs normal for you as a Capricorn to beat yourself up over heartbreak and failed relationships. Youโll wonder what you couldโve done differently, and obsess over all the little things you said and did that you wish you couldโve changed.
It takes a long time for you to let someone in, and sometimes you donโt even like to consider heartbreak as a possible outcome. When it does happen, youโll drain yourself emotionally from overthinking and trying to change things that canโt be changed.
12. Taurus (April 20 โ May 20)
Once youโre settled into a relationship, you want things to stay the same forever, Taurus. Youโll try your hardest to resist any change and wonโt take โnoโ for an answer. Youโre stubborn and sometimes let your emotions get the best of you.
Youโve always believed in love and the existence of love, but you can never be fearless in any of your relationships. Even when itโs over, itโll take you a long time to believe it.
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Written byย Hannah Kern Originally appeared on Yourtango.com
Love is a risk, but it is also the most beautiful feeling in this world. Do you agree or you are afraid of falling in love?
Now, as you know why youโre scared to love according to your zodiac sign, let us know in the comments below which zodiac sign you belong to and whatโs your take on the phobia of falling in love!
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