How do you tell if youโre dating a fuckboy? Some of them are easy to identify. Some make an effort to disguise who they really are. So, read on to know how to deal when youโre dating a fuckboy.
Experience also helps to spot them but once you met a few, you will start be able to sense when theyโre around you. But until then, these signs youโre dating a fuckboy will be your saviour!
Are you dating Mr. Right or Mr. Wrong? Find out the story of dating fuckboy.
Wondering If He Is A Fuckboy? 30 Signs Youโre Dating A Fuckboy
1.ย He tells you all the sweet words in the world during the times that heโs trying to get to know you, does chivalrous deeds in the beginning, and makes you truly special. But once you have given that one YES, he starts vanishing the week after โ leaving you to wonder out loud whether you did something wrong.
2.ย He loves to send you text messages at midnight and you canโt help but wonder if heโs either drunk or really horny. Because youโre dating a fuckboy.
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3.ย He only wants to date you past 6 pm. When you ask him if heโs rather available to hang out with you on weekends during daylight, he gives you hundred of excuses that he canโt. His rules of dating you past 6 pm is in default, and if that doesnโt give you a red flag warning that he only wants to sleep with you โ I donโt know what else is.
4.ย He doesnโt want to introduce you to his parents even if youโre dating each other for a significant period of time. I mean, isnโt it weird that if he sees you as his โforever baeโ, he would have made a move to set up a meeting with his parents? Or at least be proud of how amazing of a person you are?
5.ย He cares about his bro a lot than you. He canโt watch a movie with you tonight because heโs playing video games with Evan. He canโt fetch you up after work because heโs going to help Martin with his computer problem. And a lot more stupid reasons why he canโt agree with all your plans. Itโs a clear sign youโre dating a fuckboy.
6.ย He low-key makes you realize that if youโre going to take the last item in his priority lists, youโre going to have to put yourself below it. Run because youโre dating a fuckboy.
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7.ย Heโs not cool with taking selfies together, nor tagging him with anything on Facebook, nor adding any of his friends on social media. You are a ghost person in his social bubble and heโs determined to keep it that way.
8.ย He gets upset when you ask him about his previous relationships, and gets defensive when you push the subject further. He lamely tells you that he doesnโt want to dwell on the past because of blablablaโฆ
9.ย He gives you cold treatment for the next few days when you canโt send him a nude photo that heโs asking at 1 AM. Drop him immediately because youโre dating a fuckboy.
10.ย He plays the victim in an argument and pulls off a line that comes along with, โYeah. Youโre always right and Iโm always wrong. And I get it.โ Like, yes dickwad youโre too dumb to be right.
11.ย He doesnโt understand the rules of 10 dates before sex and he thinks youโre too conservative to even exist in this world. But he keeps dating you anyway, hoping to make it to stage 10. After that time, heโs ready to flee again.
12.ย It takes him half a day to reply to your message although he casually mentions to you before that he brings his smartphone with him whenever he goes to the toilet.
13.ย It bothers him that he doesnโt get a certain number of likes on his Instagram and he takes the amount of his followers way too seriously.
14.ย He comes running back in your life once he realizes that heโs bored and needs someone to play games with. Itโs a cycle of appearing and ghosting for him, and he thinks itโs normal.
15.ย He keeps saying disgusting stuffs like โI wish I was there to shower with you.โ Or โI hope you are here with me in my bed.โ And itโs like chill out dude. There are million other lovely fantasies you can imagine me with.
16.ย Heโs not interested about howโs your day, or how stress you are in life, or how you want to take a break somewhere. He usually just replies with, โIโm tired.โ Or โOkay.โ
17. If his definition and understanding of respect is vague then youโre dating a fuckboy.
18.ย He asks you to eat outside but tells you he has no money. Cheapskate has no money and he doesnโt have the decency to at least ask you nicely.
19.ย He doesnโt see the value in arts, or why a certain song lyric is written that way, why La La Land wins a lot of awards or inquires you whatโs La La Land by the way?
20.ย You catch him secretly looking at people with such intense lust as they pass by. You debate whether he needs therapy or should consider seeing a doctor for his perversion.
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21.ย His eyes are glued to his phone while communicating with other people as soon as you start talking about a topic thatโs too much for him to comprehend.
22.ย He gets easily upset when you point him out his mistakes because he thinks he is the greatest fuckboy that has ever lived.
23.ย Then he keeps threatening you that he can replace you in any minute. As if people are super psyched to line up for a fuckboy experience.
24.ย He is not a fan of labels. He believes that casual dating is the new thing. Wait, actually youโre not dating โ youโre just talking.
25.ย He thinks destiny and fate are utter bullshit and are only made to patronize film industry.
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26. If he uses that sweet tone whenever he needs something from you and convinces himself that by doing so, he can get whatever he wants, then youโre dating a fuckboy.
27.ย When you ask him the cliche question of โHow does he see himself in five years?โ He replies, โItโs too far away. Why do you want to talk about something that is yet to happen?โ Because he is ambitious that way.
28.ย His social status does matter to him. He canโt walk on the street for too long without a coffee on his hands. He looks at cars as a measurement of a personโs worth, even though most of his paychecks go to car loan. His life is not complete without a visit to the club once a week. And he hates it when people canโt recognize him.
29. Ball is life for him and if you canโt keep up with that, you should bounce. Stop dating a fuckboy.
30. He is useless to be someone you can call as a boyfriend. And you know what? Youโre wasting your time, effort, energy, and money for a fuckboy like that. Because you deserve better.
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Did you relate to any of these fuckboy signs in your man? If yes, drop a comment down below.
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