โWhy am I not happy?โ โฆ Have you too asked this question? Perhaps to the Universe, to yourself, or to the internet, but nothing has helped! That changes now!
Youโre working hard to be the best version of yourself. You support your family and take care of yourself, but there is still a sense of deep sadness inside you that you cannot ignore.
A recurring question gnaws at you; โWhy am I unhappy?โ
Have you ever wondered, about what makes you unhappy? Your zodiac sign will help you through the process of finding the cause of unhappiness.
The Universe does not want any of us to be unhappy. But sometimes, our own actions, choices, words, behavior, thoughts, or Karma lead us into a pit of misery.
We do not know what the right way is or we tend to forget ourselves along the road. Either way, we become sad because life doesnโt turn out to be what we thought it would be.
However, astrology has come to our help, and now we can understand what kind of unhappiness plagues us, according to our zodiac signs.
Cautionary Note: Depression and being unhappy is not the same. Unhappiness may go away within one or two days but depression continues to stay for a long time. If you are depressed, you might need therapy, medication, or both.
Why am I not Happy? Hereโs Why:
Stop asking yourself โWhy I am so unhappy?โ and learn your zodiac reason thatโs ruining your happiness.
1. Aries (March 21 โ April 19)
Not pushing yourself is the reason why you are so unhappy. You are already in a routine and you think that it is the best thing for you.
But inside, you know that it is not working out. If you donโt bring any change in your life, then maybe it will become worse. Remember, life begins outside your comfort zone, so step out.
Related: Aries Personality: 15 Things You Need To Know About The Ram Sign
You try to control everything, including people. If you think about it, there are certain things in life that you cannot control. By trying to make people think in your way, you are just paving the path toward loneliness.
Plus, you are expending half of your energy and ability trying to control others and losing most of your time there. So, relax and deal with whatever you have rather than trying to control every outcome.
Related: 10 Secrets About Taurus You Probably Know Nothing About
3. Gemini (May 21 โ June 20)
Thereโs nothing wrong with being social, but when you overdo it, thatโs when things start to get worse.
You already have this fear of missing out and so you go out of your way to attend parties and social events that will just leave you exhausted. Take some time out, stay at home, and try to relax. It will do you wonders.
Related: 10 Personality Traits Of The Misunderstood Gemini
4. Cancer (June 21 โ July 22)
Stop asking yourself โWhy I am never happyโ! You already know! Stop trying to be a saint. Being empathetic has gone all wrong for you; you are too much of a giver.
But the problem is that when you give so much away, you fail to keep some for yourself and thus you are left with nothing.
Thereโs no doubt that when you are dealing with so many emotions, you will feel overwhelmed, which causes unhappiness.
But try to direct some of your empathy towards yourself. Help yourself and after that, you can try to help others. And donโt help everybody โ not everyone deserves it.
Related: 12 Personality Traits Of Cancer, The Cardinal Water Sign
5. Leo (July 23 โ August 22)
While you do have your lion pride, somewhere, you are still worried about what others might be thinking about you. When you are continuously worried about other people and what their thoughts are, it just puts immense pressure on you.
You have to be honest and genuine but if you are always going about your life trying to impress others, how are you going to be YOU? Accept yourself for who you are and show the world.
So, shake off those insecurities and needs for validation. You are your best version when you donโt try to win othersโ approval.
Related: 10 Personality Traits Of Leo, The Untamed Fire Sign
6. Virgo (August 23 โ September 22)
โWhy am I never happy anymore?โ- Does this question haunt you? Look inward! You always try to keep everything within yourself. You have always wanted a perfect life and you would like to keep your image as a perfectionist.
The result: you donโt express yourself properly. This will keep you under a lot of stress and as long as you keep suppressing your emotions, it will end up making you apathetic.
You like to help people and your friends want to help you too โ so why not accept their help?
Related: 10 Personality Traits Of Virgo, The Mercurial Earth Sign
7. Libra (September 23 โ October 22)
The problem with you is taking things personally. Not everything is about you, and sometimes, a little bit of criticism is good for you.
Itโs good to be sensitive and emotional, but if you take everything as a personal attack and never allow others to fully express themselves, you will surround yourself with fakes!
But you crave authentic connections and deep spiritual bonds, and that is the reason you end up being unhappy in a relationship, feeling alone and miserable.
Related: 10 Personality Traits Of Libra, The Idealistic Air Sign
8. Scorpio (October 23 โ November 21)
You look at the pessimistic side of life. When there is some kind of sad situation, you tend to enter a pit of unhappiness from which you do not try to get out.
Once you are inside that pit, a slight error will drag you down and by the time you know what to do, you have lost control and are falling down a bottomless pit.
Fortunately, when you do something, you do it well. Unfortunately, the same is true when it comes to experiencing sadness.
So, it is better if you look at the positive side of things. Just let the positivity flow through you and then amp it up by working out and letting the endorphins flow through your body. Then you are in a better shape of facing life.
Related: The Good and Bad of Loving A Scorpio (12 Brutal Truths)
9. Sagittarius (November 22 โ December 21)
You are doing what others want you to do. Settling down, looking for a traditional life, and being a traditional adult is not what you are meant to be and you know it.
It is the primary source of your unhappiness. Nothing seems to be exciting anymore. You are trapped.
Maybe this is the time that you need to go out and experience a change of air. Try to go for a weekend holiday with a friend or partner and find happiness again.
Related: 10 Personality Traits Of Sagittarius, The Fiery Archer Sign
10. Capricorn (December 22 โ January 19)
You are not willing to take a risk and that is eating you from the inside. You have the opportunity to do something you want but you know that if you do it, you wonโt be getting the returns that fast or that easily.
But then, we donโt do everything for money and we do not know what project can turn out to be lucrative in the end. So, itโs best to explore an idea more and then just go for it. After all, you never know what the future holds for you.
Related: The Good and Bad of Loving A Capricorn (7 Brutal Truths)
11. Aquarius (January 20 โ February 18)
You love freedom โ you want to be your own boss but right now, you are living your life under some other person. You want to do things your way but you are not allowed to do so and that is just terrible.
You know you are capable of being independent and that is why when someone tries to control you, it just rubs you in the wrong way. Itโs time for you to figure out what you want and go for it.
Related: The Good and Bad of Loving An Aquarius (7 Brutal Truths)
12. Pisces (February 19 โ March 20)
You do certain things just because you want someone else to like you. It makes your life easier though it doesnโt necessarily make you happy. Itโs time for you to take a stand and be your own maker.
Take the step towards independence, take certain decisions in your life, and move forward with them. Youโre strong and if you use this strength in the right way, you can achieve greatness on your own terms.
Related: 10 Personality Traits Of Pisces, The Gentle Water Sign
Life is too short to be unhappy. All you need is to take one step toward your own growth and fulfillment to get rid of unhappiness.
So, are you ready to take that step? Stop asking yourself โWhy am I not happy?โ and understand that you are strong. While it might seem intimidating at first, you can do it if you try. So, donโt be afraid โ just go for it!
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