Are you wondering why he isn’t interested?
Love is the most sought after human experience. We all want to be with someone who is a home and an adventure all at once.
But sometimes, in our desperation to find a happy ending, we fail to recognize the signs when someone is just not into you.
There is no need to waste your time with someone who isn’t interested, hoping they would change their minds.
Related: What Love Means To You Based On Your Zodiac Sign
Once you know what to look for, it’s not hard to notice the red flags if someone is not that interested in you.
“Girls are taught a lot of stuff growing up. If a guy punches you he likes you. Never try to trim your own bangs and someday you will meet a wonderful guy and get your very own happy ending. Every movie we see, Every story we’re told implores us to wait for it, the third act twist, the unexpected declaration of love, the exception to the rule. But sometimes we’re so focused on finding our happy ending we don’t learn how to read the signs. How to tell from the ones who want us and the ones who don’t; the ones who will stay and the ones who will leave.” – He’s just not that into you
Here Is A List Of Signs That Show, He’s Just Not That Into You, Based On His Zodiac Sign.
So pay heed, move on and find someone who is.
1. ARIES (Mar 21 – Apr 19)
Aries is a fiery fire sign.
An Aries man is active, excitable, impulsive, optimistic and go-getter.
They are courageous, natural leaders and look for new experiences and thrills.
Behavior to watch out for!
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If an Aries man is looking at his phone, watch or his surroundings while talking to you but not really looking at you, he is clearly searching for something that piques his interest. He is not really listening to you because he is clearly disinterested.
Aries men love the chase, so if he is not chasing or making any efforts to woo you, walk away!
2. TAURUS (Apr 20 – May 20)
Taurus is a practical, reliable, loyal and stable Earth sign.
Taureans crave sensuality, romance, and intimacy. They look for someone who is in it for the long haul. They want someone for their happily ever after and they feel like you are not that someone, they will shut down.
Behavior to watch out for!
A Taurus will simply vanish if he is not interested. Short replies or bland replies are a telltale sign that the Taurus is not feeling it.
Related: How He Acts Like When In Love Based on his Zodiac Sign
3. GEMINI (May 21 – June 20)
Gemini is an air sign. They are the king of social contacts and communications. They have a very big social circle and like to have fun.
If they want to be in a relationship with someone, they would let that person into their personal space, inviting them to co-host a party or go to invites together or ask your opinions in their daily affairs.
Behavior to watch out for!
Distancing himself, going to events without you, not seeking your opinion are all telltale signs that he is not that into you.
Geminis also have a fun and playful side. If they are interested in you, they would show their affection by playfully teasing you, if they are not being excited to see you or show any physical displays of affection, they are just not that into you!
4. CANCER (June 21 – July 22)
Cancer is a cardinal water sign. It is the most sensitive, deep, intellectual and psychic of all zodiac signs.
If a Cancer man loves you, he would open up to have deep, philosophical conversations with you. He would nurture and pamper you to no end. He would be the one you can rely on to get you a soup when you are not feeling well or give you a foot massage if you had a tiring day.
Related: 12 Personality Traits Of Cancer, The Cardinal Water Sign
Behavior to watch out for!
Cancer men crave intimacy and deep conversations; if they start talking about trivial topics like hows the weather or food, then they are just not that into you.
A cancer man will really make his girl feel extremely loved and cared for.
If he does not make any effort to pamper or nurture you, he has already checked out girl!
5. LEO (July 23 – Aug 22)
A Leo is a hot fire sign. They like the spotlight to be on them.
Vanity is their favorite sin.
They will pamper you, buy you a drink, and entertain you as long as they want to get attention from you. If Leo is disinterested, he will not pay attention to you and constantly search for his object of affection till he gets it.
Behavior to watch out for!
A Leo loves the thrill of the chase. If Leo is not interested in you; he will just not make any effort to woo you. He will rather make efforts to woo someone from whom he wants attention.
6. VIRGO (Aug 23 – Sep 22)
Virgo is the most modest, practical, discriminating, analytical and industrious of all zodiac signs. Their element is Earth and the ruling planet is Mercury.
They like to solve problems and keep things functioning at their optimal level including their relationships.
They are also very sensitive, so if they are not feeling it, they might just go silent instead of spilling the truth to avoid hurting you.
Behavior to watch out for!
Virgo man may completely shut down if he is not interested in you, expect awkward silences and cold vibes, he’s not saying it but he’s definitely checked out mentally!
7. LIBRA (Sept 23 – Oct 22)
Libra is an air sign and its ruling planet is Venus. Libra man seeks love, romance, and passion. Just like Taureans, they are looking for someone who is committed and decisive.
If they are interested, they would constantly want to be in touch, check on you, and send random gifts and flowers.
Related: What it Means to Love a Libra
Behavior to watch out for!
If a Libra, stops checking on you, giving you random surprises, asking for your opinion or stops sharing what is happening in their lives, they have already moved on in their head.
8. SCORPIO (Oct 23 – Nov 21)
Scorpio is a water sign and its ruling planet is Pluto.
It is one of the most intense signs of all the zodiac signs.
Behavior to watch out for!
If a Scorpio man is not interested in you, he will cut straight to the point.
He will tell you upfront even if it appears rude or cold to you.
If he’s not really that into you, he will end it abruptly or turn highly sarcastic or cold.
Scorpios wear their disinterest on their sleeves and you would be able to see through their complacent attitude and disinterest.
9. SAGITTARIUS (Nov 22 – Dec 19)
Sagittarius is a fire sign and its ruling planet is Jupiter.
Sagittarians are ambitious, driven, generous, focused, freedom-loving, seekers of challenge, open to new ideas, innovation and exploration.
Behavior to watch out for!
Sagittarians are open and direct. If he is not interested in you, he would tell you upfront.
They don’t want to be mean or hurt you but they don’t like beating around the bush.
10. CAPRICORN (Dec 20 – Jan 19)
Capricorn is a cardinal earth sign.
Capricorns are level headed, rational, driven and go-getters.
Behavior to watch out for!
If a Capricorn is interested in you, he would make efforts to woo you.
But if he is instead focusing on his work and to-do lists more than focusing on you, then clearly you don’t feature in his list of priorities.
11. AQUARIUS (Jan 20 – Feb 18)
Aquarius is an air sign and its ruling planet is Uranus.
Aquarius is the most intellectual and unconventional of all zodiac signs. They don’t fall for conventional relationship paradigms.
If he is interested in you, he will dig into your brain, ask you a lot of questions, and have intellectual conversations with you.
Behavior to watch out for!
If an Aquarius man is not interested in you, you will just know. He will look visibly bored and detached. He would not indulge in stimulating conversations with you or share any new ideas with you. He will just grow cold and distant and focus on living his own life.
Related: Zodiac Signs Who Are Afraid Of Love, Ranked From Most To Least
12. PISCES (Feb 19 – Mar 20)
Pisces is a water sign and its ruling planet is Neptune.
They are creative and idealists.
They are sensitive, psychic and altruistic in nature.
Related: 10 Reasons Why Pisces Women Are The Best Women To Love
Behavior to watch out for!
If a Piscean man doesn’t like you he would pull away very subtly. Due to his sensitive nature, he doesn’t want to hurt your feelings and would never say directly that he is not interested in you.
When they become wishy-washy in their plans with you and start making excuses, it is a telltale sign that they are really not that into you and are trying to find a polite way to move on.
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