8 Signs He’s Flirting With You And NOT Just Being Nice

signs he is flirting with you and not just being nice

Can you recognize flirting signs? From eye contact to a flirtatious smiles, learn to spot the signals someone is into you.

You don’t know really what this guy is about.

Is he just being polite?

What’s going on with him?

Today, I’m going to give you signs he’s flirting with you that you can look for.

Sometimes, guys can be hard to read, right?

How do you know if he’s really into you or not?

It can really be a confusing thing. You don’t want to put yourself out there if the guy is just trying to be polite to you.

1. Flirty touch

The first sign he’s flirting with you look for is to look for the flirty touch.

flirty touch

Guys can’t help it. We have to reach out and touch a woman when we are feeling that attraction for her.

When he sees a woman he really likes, he’s just not going to be able to resist it. It’s one of the things that we are compulsively. It’s one of the things that’s just in the back of our head we got to do.

I think it comes from a lot of guys, unfortunately, being starved of physical affection. Guys don’t get the same kind of huggy, kissy, feely, touchy attention that a lot of women do.


2. His smile lingers

He’s going to smile at you to be polite but will that smile stay on his face if he’s digging you?

Probably not as much.

So if he’s smiling at you and he keeps smiling—looking for more reasons to smile at you, that’s a very good sign he’s flirting with you.

When he’s really into it and he likes being with you, he’s going to make it more of a point to laugh with you and to share his smile with you.


3. He’s excited about finding things you have in common

The third sign he’s flirting with you is he’s excited to find things you guys have in common. This is a really big one.

He’s going to go out of his way to either point out those things that you guys share— whether it’s interests, music, movies or whatever else it is.

If a guy really likes you, he’s going to be on a manhunt to find things that you guys have in common because it’s an easy way for him to bridge the connection with you.


4. He makes sexual jokes and references

This one kind of comes as a given. Guys tend to joke about sex a little too much.

You—as a woman— have to read between the lines to understand this. He’s not just trying to be a loser or a douche bag, any of that stuff.

He’s really trying to find out if the sex card is on the table. He wants to find out how you feel about the idea of sex.

Then you can bet he’s probably flirting with you if he’s trying to figure this out. He’s just trying to get a feel— not find out if you’re going to make out with him that minute or even that night– but if it’s a possibility. For him, that’s the way he figures out whether or not you are physically attracted to him.

A lot of women shut guys down on this one and you have got to be careful.

Instead of shutting him down, just laugh it off and kind of move the subject along to a different topic. And yes, he’s going to come back around to it and you’ll even want to roll your eyes, but let it go.

Most guys do this and some guys are just clueless. A lot of guys with really good hearts, in fact, do this and they just don’t realize how annoying it can be to you.

5. He playfully teases you

Teasing is a pretty sign he’s flirting with you. This is your textbook schoolyard behavior where you call Mary a name because she’s got red hair and it’s really because you like her and you don’t have any other way of opening a conversation with her.

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