You figure out who they really are and now they realize you are much stronger than they thought you could be.
Maybe they saw you were destroyed once, but now you came back stronger than ever, in spite of all of the trauma that you experienced.That makes you strong. That makes you a badass.
When the narcissist realizes that not only do you now know who & what they are, but that you also recognize your VALUE and SELF-WORTH they know the show is over for them.
They want to scatter and fear about who you are going, to tell the truth about who they really are. They will be compelled to tell lies to common acquaintances (smear campaign) in an effort to discredit an
“I Hear You”A narcissist’s top agenda is always to be heard or seen.So, when you see your narcissist displaying child-like behavior such as temper tantrum, incessant texting, etc, try responding with, “I hear you” and then repeat back to them exactly what you heard (or read).
“Say Nothing”Narcissist loves a good argument. The more they engage with you, the more opportunities they have to break you down, insult you, and get their way. So stop trying when they have made their point, and you’ve made yours, and no agreement has been reached, stop engaging with them.
“I Trust That”Lying protects their fraudulent truth, which gives them supply when someone falls for it. Calling t
Abusers don’t abuse everyone. They are actually very nice to some people, polite, and helpful.That’s why when problems arise, people do not believe the victim. This causes the victim to doubt themselves and start to internalize the abuse. This is another cruel form of gaslighting.
– Maria Consiglio
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