Narcissistic Love The Dark Side Of Fairy Tales
- Narcissists fear intimacy and rely on lying to you to get you to believe they love you.
- What they love is the idea of you loving them.
- Love bombing leads to trauma bonding.
- Narcissists see themselves as victims and so your emotions will have little impact on them and therefore, change is not a realistic possibility.
- You will always be wrong.
Admiration Vs Love
- Narcissists see no value in loving you only in you loving them.
- Narcissists feel entitled and deserving of your admiration and rather than love you, what they love is your admiration and not true intimacy.
Won’t Let You In
- Narcissists don’t trust others and lock their vulnerabilities away making it impossible to really know who they really are.
- They rely on you only for a source of narcissistic supply.
- Relationships are one sided.