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  • I notice everything

    For all the sensitive Souls, love to you all. Being sensitive is a boon, remember that.<3 <3

  • Humanity is my Religion

    I know Humanity has it’s flaws, but I ‘ll still believe in it

  • If someone is stupid enough to leave

    “If someone is stupid enough to walk away from you, be smart enough to let them go.”

    Be stupid enough or to be smart enough ?

  • Like it was the last time.

    Treat everything, like it is the last time. You never know, if there actually lies a future ahead.

  • How To Be A Better You Based on Your Zodiac Sign

    We are often asked and motivated to enhance our strengths, while encouraged to push aside our weaknesses. Educating ourselves on our flaws is as intriguing as knowing all our positive qualities. Even the rock of the group Taurus, the feeler Cancer and the social butterfly Libra among the other signs have flaws they must work on.




    Read on to discover how to become a better you.

    1. Aries

    You’re the courageous type, and doing things well – quickly and with flair – comes naturally to you. Think about cultivating sensitivity, as well as practicality that will allow you to figure out in advance what works and what doesn’t. If you succeed, your inspirational approach will pack an even greater punch!



    2. Taurus

    You’re steady and sensible, a rock of stability. But rather than acting the part of a deeply rooted oak tree, try being a reed that bends in the breeze and adapts to others. Find the faith to follow your hunches, rather than double-checking all the practical angles. If you listen to your heart, your strength will become more effective.

    3. Gemini

    You are a thinker, talker, and mover. So, try standing still for a change! You won’t die of boredom. Dive deeply into your current projects rather than scattering to all four winds. Feel your way into situations, instead of standing back and thinking. You’ll never allow yourself to turn into a stick in the mud, but you’ll find that your efforts will pay off handsomely.

    4. Cancer

    You’re sensitive, creative and hopelessly active. For one day try shutting your heart. Listen to your head. Develop detachment so you can shut out distractions. If you learn to be more resilient and secure, your amazing ability to sniff out possibilities will be that much more powerful!




    5. Leo

    You’re sunny, outgoing and naturally optimistic. What you’re not, however, is realistic or inward-looking. Plan before you jump into action. Take quality time on your own and enjoy it. Everyone else thinks you’re wonderful, but you need to convince yourself of this – without an audience. If you do, you’ll sparkle ever more brightly.

    6. Virgo

    You’re practical, helpful and not a little fussy. But you need to find your hidden fire, which means cultivating optimism, taking the odd risk, and following your dreams rather than your duties on occasion. Be bolder and more proactive, and flamboyant rather than understated. Your new vitality will sweep you on to victory!

    7. Libra

    You’re a social and a charming talker – a natural mediator. Now go ahead and toss that tact out the window and focus on yourself for a bit. Forget about gaining approval and being respected; instead, get down and dirty. There are nuggets of gold in the gutter that are yours for the taking.

    8. Scorpio

    You live naturally with passionate intensity, and you require a depth of feeling like few others. Because of this, standing back to think will take some effort on your part, and so will practicing the art of letting go without harboring bitterness. You’ll never be superficial, but you’ll find that living on the surface adds a missing dimension to your existence.

    9. Sagittarius

    You’re excitable, hopeful, restless and always looking to expand the potential of whatever you’re involved in. Having to be practical feels as if it’s taking a bite out of your dream. But if you put a limit on your inspirations and box them in, you’ll find that you’ll consolidate your ambitions. Think less instead of more.

    10. Capricorn

    You’re earthy, sensible, ambitious. You need to cultivate your sense of vision, nurture your dreams and develop your faith. Try harder to be optimistic instead of pessimistic, fiery instead of leaden, and reckless instead of cautious. Inject some spontaneous enjoyment into your life and you’ll never look back.




    11. Aquarius

    You’re cool, detached, firm and independent. Your first goal should be to find some fire to breathe warmth and vitality into your ideas. Don’t be scared of your feelings, since they’ll be your main portal to greater fulfillment. Get out of your head and down into your body, heart, and guts. Live multi-dimensionally.

    12. Pisces

    You’re a creature of the cosmos and the oceans, floating and swimming your way through life. Dryland is your least comfortable realm, so learn to become rooted in reality by bringing your visions and dreams down to earth. They may be less perfect, but they’ll be more likely to happen. Take your wobbly self-confidence and give it a shot of adrenalin! Then, nothing will stop you!

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  • I Trusted Her

    ‘I trusted her. I gave her everything. And still, she left.’
    ‘And that’s the risk we take. It’s not her fault, child, that’s life, that’s love.
    They call it falling in love because sometimes you’re caught,
    and sometimes you’re not.’




    – Beau Taplin
  • You touched me and suddenly I was a liliac sky

    Did you just not like that part, which was half  ‘You’ ?

  • There’s a reason the rear view mirror is so small

    It’s good to look at the Past, 

    Just do’nt stare.

  • I Met You in the Rain on the Last Day of 1972, The Same Day I Resolved to Kill Myself- A Man’s Post on Craigslist

    We meet a lot of people in our lifetime. Sometimes we experience strange and short encounters with strangers that leave us thinking about them or wanting to meet them again, miss connection with them or never see them ever in life. There is always a reason behind everything that happens in life whether sweet or bitter. Thanks to missed connections on craigslist. You can write to your heart’s content here and let the world know your feelings. Here’s is an intriguing story of a Boston man and what his encounter with a stranger in the rain on the last day of 1972 turned out to be.

    Note: Craigslist is known for many things, but perhaps the most famous is its Missed Connections section. Amorous city dwellers who couldn’t work up the nerve to say something to that cute stranger they were eye-flirting with on the train can post a message detailing the time and place, hoping said stranger will do the same.

    The messages are generally short and sweet, like, “I was the one in the blue headphones, you were the one in the pink skirt. We both got off at Union Square and I wish I ran after you…” But this post from the Boston Missed Connections board is different, and it’s gone viral. So what’s all the fuss about, and why is Wired saying this might be “the first Craigslist ad to win a Pulitzer”? Read it for yourself: I met you in the rain on the last day of 1972, the same day I resolved to kill myself. One week prior, at the behest of Richard Nixon and Henry Kissinger, I’d flown four B-52 sorties over Hanoi. I dropped 48 bombs. How many homes I destroyed, how many lives I ended, I’ll never know. But in the eyes of my superiors, I had served

    rain on the last day
    This is a Boston man’s “Missed Connections” post on Craigslist about a woman he met on New Year’s Eve in 1972. It was too beautiful not to share, and a great reminder that you never know why the people you meet are there…

    I met you in the rain on the last day of 1972, the same day I resolved to kill myself.

    One week prior, at the behest of Richard Nixon and Henry Kissinger, I’d flown four B-52 sorties over Hanoi. I dropped forty-eight bombs. How many homes I destroyed, how many lives I ended, I’ll never know. But in the eyes of my superiors, I had served my country honorably, and I was thusly discharged with such distinction.

    And so on the morning of that New Year’s Eve, I found myself in a barren studio apartment on Beacon and Hereford with a fifth of Tennessee rye and the pang of shame permeating the recesses of my soul. When the bottle was empty, I made for the door and vowed, upon returning, that I would retrieve the Smith & Wesson Model 15 from the closet and give myself the discharge I deserved.

    I walked for hours. I looped around the Fenway before snaking back past Symphony Hall and up to Trinity Church. Then I roamed through the Common, scaled the hill with its golden dome, and meandered into that charming labyrinth divided by Hanover Street. By the time I reached the waterfront, a charcoal sky had opened and a drizzle became a shower. That shower soon gave way to a deluge. While the other pedestrians darted for awnings and lobbies, I trudged into the rain. I suppose I thought, or rather hoped, that it might wash away the patina of guilt that had coagulated around my heart. It didn’t, of course, so I started back to the apartment.

    And then I saw you.

    You’d taken shelter under the balcony of the Old State House. You were wearing a teal ball gown, which appeared to me both regal and ridiculous. Your brown hair was matted to the right side of your face, and a galaxy of freckles dusted your shoulders. I’d never seen anything so beautiful.

    When I joined you under the balcony, you looked at me with your big green eyes, and I could tell that you’d been crying. I asked if you were okay. You said you’d been better. I asked if you’d like to have a cup of coffee. You said only if I would join you. Before I could smile, you snatched my hand and led me on a dash through Downtown Crossing and into Neisner’s.

    We sat at the counter of that five and dime and talked like old friends. We laughed as easily as we lamented, and you confessed over pecan pie that you were engaged to a man you didn’t love, a banker from some line of Boston nobility. A Cabot, or maybe a Chaffee. Either way, his parents were hosting a soirée to ring in the New Year, hence the dress.

    For my part, I shared more of myself than I could have imagined possible at that time. I didn’t mention Vietnam, but I got the sense that you could see there was a war waging inside me. Still, your eyes offered no pity, and I loved you for it.

    After an hour or so, I excused myself to use the restroom. I remember consulting my reflection in the mirror. Wondering if I should kiss you if I should tell you what I’d done from the cockpit of that bomber a week before if I should return to the Smith & Wesson that waited for me. I decided, ultimately, that I was unworthy of the resuscitation this stranger in the teal ball gown had given me, and to turn my back on such sweet serendipity would be the real disgrace.

    On the way back to the counter, my heart thumped in my chest like an angry judge’s gavel, and a future—our future—flickered in my mind. But when I reached the stools, you were gone. No phone number. No note. Nothing.

    As strangely as our union had begun, so too had it ended. I was devastated. I went back to Neisner’s every day for a year, but I never saw you again. Ironically, the torture of your abandonment seemed to swallow my self-loathing, and the prospect of suicide was suddenly less appealing than the prospect of discovering what had happened in that restaurant. The truth is I never really stopped wondering.

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    I’m an old man now, and only recently did I recount this story to someone for the first time, a friend from the VFW. He suggested I look for you on Facebook. I told him I didn’t know anything about Facebook, and all I knew about you was your first name and that you had lived in Boston once. And even if by some miracle I happened upon your profile, I’m not sure I would recognize you. Time is cruel that way.

    This same friend has a particularly sentimental daughter. She’s the one who led me here to Craigslist and these Missed Connections. But as I cast this virtual coin into the wishing well of the cosmos, it occurs to me, after a million what-ifs and a lifetime of lost sleep, that our connection wasn’t missed at all.

    You see, in these intervening forty-two years, I’ve lived a good life. I’ve loved a good woman. I’ve raised a good man. I’ve seen the world. And I’ve forgiven myself. And you were the source of all of it. You breathed your spirit into my lungs one rainy afternoon, and you can’t possibly imagine my gratitude.

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    I have hard days, too. My wife passed four years ago. My son, the year after. I cry a lot. Sometimes from loneliness, sometimes I don’t know why. Sometimes I can still smell the smoke over Hanoi. And then, a few dozen times a year, I’ll receive a gift. The sky will glower, and the clouds will hide the sun, and the rain will begin to fall. And I’ll remember.

    So wherever you’ve been, wherever you are, and wherever you’re going, know this: you’re with me still.

    Comment and let us know how did you like “I Met You in the Rain on the Last Day of 1972, The Same Day I Resolved to Kill Myself”.

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    I Met You in the Rain on the Last Day of 1972, The Same Day I Resolved to Kill Myself -a Boston man’s “Missed Connections” post on Craigslist
    I Met You in the Rain on the Last Day of 1972
    I Met You in the Rain on the Last Day of 1972, The Same Day I Resolved to Kill Myself -a Boston man’s “Missed Connections” post on Craigslist
  • How Does It Feel Like To Die? – For the Curious

    How does it feel like to die?

    Is it distressing to experience consciousness slipping away or something people can accept with equanimity? Are there any surprises in store as our existence draws to a close? These are questions that have plagued philosophers and scientists for centuries, and chances are you’ve pondered them too occasionally.

    None of us can know the answers for sure until our own time comes, but the few individuals who have their brush with death interrupted by a last-minute reprieve can offer some intriguing insights on how does it feel like to die. Advances in medical science, too, have led to a better understanding of what goes on as the body gives up the ghost.

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    Death comes in many guises, but one way or another it is usually a lack of oxygen to the brain that delivers the coup de grâce. Whether as a result of a heart attack, drowning or suffocation, for example, people ultimately die because their neurons are deprived of oxygen, leading to the cessation of electrical activity in the brain – the modern definition of biological death.

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    If the flow of freshly oxygenated blood to the brain is stopped, through whatever mechanism, people tend to have about 10 seconds before losing consciousness. They may take many more minutes to die, though, with the exact mode of death affecting the subtleties of the final experience. Read on to know how does it feel like to die.

    Drowning to Death

    How Does It Feel Like To Die?

    Typically, when a victim realizes that they cannot keep their head above water they tend to panic, leading to the classic “surface struggle”. They gasp for air at the surface and hold their breath as they bob beneath. Struggling to breathe, they can’t call for help. Their bodies are upright, arms weakly grasping, as if trying to climb a non-existent ladder from the sea. Studies with New York lifeguards in the 1950s and 1960s found that this stage lasts just 20 to 60 seconds. When victims eventually submerge, they hold their breath for as long as possible, typically 30 to 90 seconds. After that, they inhale some water, splutter, cough and inhale more. Water in the lungs blocks gas exchange in delicate tissues, while inhaling water also triggers the airway to seal shut – a reflex called a laryngospasm. “There is a feeling of tearing and a burning sensation in the chest as water goes down into the airway. Then that sort of slips into a feeling of calmness and tranquility,” describing reports from survivors. That calmness represents the beginnings of the loss of consciousness from oxygen deprivation, which eventually results in the heart-stopping and brain death.

    Heart attack

    heart-attack

    The most common symptom is, of course, chest pain: a tightness, pressure or squeezing, often described as an “elephant on my chest”, which may be lasting or come and go. This is the heart muscle struggling and dying from oxygen deprivation. Pain can radiate to the jaw, throat, back, belly and arms. Other signs and symptoms include shortness of breath, nausea and cold sweats.

    Most victims delay before seeking assistance, waiting an average of 2 to 6 hours. Women are the worst, probably because they are more likely to experience less well-known symptoms, such as breathlessness, back or jaw pain, or nausea, says JoAnn Manson, an epidemiologist at Harvard Medical School

    Even small heart attacks can play havoc with the electrical impulses that control heart muscle contraction, effectively stopping it. In about 10 seconds the person loses consciousness, and minutes later they are dead.

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    Burning to Death

    How Does It Feel Like To Die?

    Long the fate of witches and heretics, burning to death is torture. Hot smoke and flames singe eyebrows and hair and burn the throat and airways, making it hard to breathe. Burns inflict immediate and intense pain through stimulation of the nociceptors – the pain nerves in the skin. To make matters worse, burns also trigger a rapid inflammatory response, which boosts sensitivity to pain in the injured tissues and surrounding areas.

    How does it feel like to die when burned to death?

    Most people who die in fires do not, in fact, die from burns. The most common cause of death is inhaling toxic gases – carbon monoxide, carbon dioxide, and even hydrogen cyanide – together with the suffocating lack of oxygen. One study of fire deaths in Norway from 1996 found that almost 75 percent of the 286 people autopsied had died from carbon monoxide poisoning. Depending on the size of the fire and how close you are to it, concentrations of carbon monoxide could start to cause headaches and drowsiness in minutes, eventually leading to unconsciousness. According to the US National Fire Protection Association, 40 percent of the victims of fatal home fires are knocked out by fumes before they can even wake up.

    Decapitated to Death

    How Does It Feel Like To Die?

    Beheading, if somewhat gruesome, can be one of the quickest and least painful ways to die – so long as the executioner is skilled, his blade sharp, and the condemned sits still. Quick it may be, but consciousness is nevertheless believed to continue after the spinal cord is severed.

    A study in rats in 1991 found that it takes 2.7 seconds for the brain to consume the oxygen from the blood in the head; the equivalent figure for humans has been calculated at 7 seconds. It took the axeman three attempts to sever the head of Mary Queen of Scots in 1587. He had to finish the job with a knife. Decades earlier in 1541, Margaret Pole, the Countess of Salisbury, was executed at the Tower of London. She was dragged to the block but refused to lay her head down. The inexperienced axe man made a gash in her shoulder rather than her neck. According to some reports, she leaped from the block and was chased by the executioner, who struck 11 times before she died.

    Bleeding to Death

    People can bleed to death in seconds if the aorta, the major blood vessel leading from the heart, is completely severed, for example, after a severe fall or car accident. Death could creep up much more slowly if a smaller vein or artery is nicked – even taking hours. Such victims would experience several stages of hemorrhagic shock. The average adult has 5 liters of blood. Losses of around 750 milliliters generally cause few symptoms. Anyone losing 1.5 liters – either through an external wound or internal bleeding – feels weak, thirsty and anxious, and would be breathing fast. By 2 liters, people experience dizziness, confusion and then eventual unconsciousness.

    Falling to Death

    Falling to death

    A high fall is certainly among the speediest ways to die: terminal velocity (no pun intended) is about 200 kilometers per hour, achieved from a height of about 145 meters or more. A study of deadly falls in Hamburg, Germany, found that 75 percent of victims died in the first few seconds or minutes after landing.

    The exact cause of death varies, depending on the landing surface and the person’s posture. People are especially unlikely to arrive at the hospital alive if they land on their head – more common for shorter (under 10 meters) and higher (over 25 meters) falls. A 1981 analysis of 100 suicidal jumps from the Golden Gate Bridge in San Francisco – height: 75 meters, velocity on impact with the water: 120 kilometers per hour – found numerous causes of instantaneous death including massive lung bruising, collapsed lungs, exploded hearts or damage to major blood vessels and lungs through broken ribs.

    Survivors of great falls often report the sensation of time slowing down. The natural reaction is to struggle to maintain a feet-first landing, resulting in fractures to the leg bones, lower spinal column, and life-threatening broken pelvises. The impact traveling up through the body can also burst the aorta and heart chambers. Yet this is probably still the safest way to land, despite the force being concentrated in a small area: the feet and legs form a “crumple zone” which provides some protection to the major internal organs. Some experienced climbers or skydivers who have survived a fall report feeling focused, alert and driven to ensure they landed in the best way possible: relaxed, legs bent and, where possible, ready to roll.

    Electrocuted to Death

    Electrocuted to Death

    In accidental electrocutions, usually involving low, household current, the most common cause of death is an arrhythmia, stopping the heart dead. Unconsciousness ensues after the standard 10 seconds, says Richard Trohman, a cardiologist at Rush University in Chicago. One study of electrocution deaths in Montreal, Canada found that 92 percent had probably died from arrhythmia. Higher currents can produce nearly immediate unconsciousness.

    Hanged to Death

    How does it feel like to die

    Suicides and old-fashioned “short drop” executions cause death by strangulation; the rope puts pressure on the windpipe and the arteries to the brain. This can cause unconsciousness in 10 seconds, but it takes longer if the noose is incorrectly sited. Witnesses of public hangings often reported victims “dancing” in pain at the end of the rope, struggling violently as they asphyxiated.

    Death only ensues after many minutes, as shown by the numerous people being resuscitated after being cut down – even after 15 minutes. When public executions were outlawed in Britain in 1868, hangmen looked for a less performance-oriented approach. They eventually adopted the “long-drop” method, using a lengthier rope so the victim reached a speed that broke their necks. It had to be tailored to the victim’s weight, however, as too great a force could rip the head clean off, a professionally embarrassing outcome for the hangman.

    Despite the public boasting of several prominent executioners in late 19th-century Britain, a 1992 analysis of the remains of 34 prisoners found that in only about half of cases was the cause of death wholly or partly due to spinal trauma. Just one-fifth showed the classic “hangman’s fracture” between the second and third cervical vertebrae. The others died in part from asphyxiation.

    Michael Spence, an anthropologist at the University of Western Ontario in London, Canada, has found similar results in US victims. He concluded, however, that even if asphyxiation played a role, the trauma of the drop would have rapidly rendered all of them unconscious. “What the hangmen were looking for was the quick cessation of activity,” he says. “And they knew enough about their craft to ensure that happened. The thing they feared most was decapitation.”

    Lethal Injection to Death

    Feel like to die with lethal injection

    Explosive Decompression to Death

    To dies when explosive decompressioned to death

    In real life, there has been just one fatal space depressurization accident. This occurred on the Russian Soyuz-11 mission in 1971 when a seal leaked upon re-entry into the Earth’s atmosphere; upon landing all three flight crew were found dead from asphyxiation. Most of our knowledge of depressurization comes from animal experiments and the experiences of pilots in accidents at very high altitudes.

    When the external air pressure suddenly drops, the air in the lungs expands, tearing the fragile gas exchange tissues. This is especially damaging if the victim neglects to exhale prior to decompression or tries to hold their breath. Oxygen begins to escape from the blood and lungs.

    Experiments on dogs in the 1950s showed that 30 to 40 seconds after the pressure drops, their bodies began to swell as the water in tissues vaporized, though the tight seal of their skin prevented them from “bursting”. The heart rate rises initially, then plummets. Bubbles of water vapor form in the blood and travel through the circulatory system, obstructing blood flow.

    After about a minute, blood effectively stops circulating. Human survivors of rapid decompression accidents include pilots whose planes lost pressure, or in one case a NASA technician who accidentally depressurized his flight suit inside a vacuum chamber. They often report an initial pain, like being hit in the chest, and may remember feeling air escape from their lungs and the inability to inhale. Time to the loss of consciousness was generally less than 15 seconds.

    Wrap Up

    Death is still a mystery and much is yet to be discovered.  But, from what is revealed as of now, have you had any near-death experience? How does it feel like to die? Share your thoughts by commenting below.

    How Does It Feel Like To Die For the Curious
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