10 Uncomfortable Signs You’re Becoming The Person You Mean To Be

Written By:

Rayi Noormega

Written By:

Rayi Noormega

Uncomfortable Signs Youre Becoming The Person You Mean To Be featured 2

Are you becoming the person you mean to be? There’re 10 uncomfortable yet reassuring signs that can confirm this!

Do you think you’re the person you’re meant to be? Like everybody else, you also have your own dreams and aspirations to become the person you mean to be, and in order to do that, you must embrace change.

Change is bound to make you feel uncomfortable but you must accept and embrace it. If you’re facing discomfort on your way, then it’s a sign that you are moving in the right direction.

Never turn back no matter how hard it is, else you may have to live a life that is less than you deserve and you’ll fail to be the person you mean to be.

This is the time you must open yourself up to new experiences and you should begin to realize the beauty of change. It is important for you to recognize the uncomfortable signs so that you don’t lose focus in the middle of your mission.

10 Uncomfortable Signs You’re Becoming The Person You Mean To Be!

Here’re the signs that confirm you’re becoming the person you want to be:

1. Independence Mode On

You are absolutely independent in your life now. This means that you wish and desire and even do all the things by yourself and this independence is absolutely important to you. You live so that you can be independent.

Sometimes, this independence makes you feel alone and uncomfortable but you don’t want to give it up for anything else in the whole wide world. This is because you feel that you are in charge of everything and this feeling is of utmost pleasure to you.

Your freedom to be you signifies that you’re becoming the person you mean to be!

Related: How Changing Your Beliefs Will Make You Realize How Much Life Has To Offer

2. You Are Not An Absolute Fan Of Yourself

You feel that you have unfinished business. You need to work on yourself. You think that you are a project that needs polishing and you strive for this kind of excellence in your daily life.

Also, you are aware of the key areas that you should work on and this awareness is indeed the beginning of the change that you desire to achieve in your life. You’re on your way to be the person you mean to be.

3. You So Want To Dump The Unnecessary Relationships

With maturity comes a realization that some relationships come with a lot of baggage and stress. This means that some relationships are not as good for us as we think they are.

You will dump these unnecessary relationships as you want to start afresh on this front because you realize that you are strong enough to deal with the loneliness and sadness that breaking these ties may cause.

But what you are striving for is real and you want to become the person you mean to be, so you don’t wish to compromise that at all.

the person you mean to be

4. Trust Is A Big Deal

You have been through a lot, obviously. And this ‘a lot’ has taught you one important thing, which is, you can only trust a few people in your life.

You wish to put your faith, trust, time, and energy into a selected few because you don’t want your trust to be broken.

You have often been in a position where you had to question your ability to trust but now you are certain: You must trust only after checking that that person deserves your trust.

5. You Feel Life Is Not Offering You Much

You desire and wish for new experiences every day and this desire pushes you towards betterment. But you always complain that life is not offering you enough. What does that mean?

This means that you expect more from life, you’re eager to explore more opportunities, take more chances, push yourself harder, and get out of your comfort zone.

You’re getting ready to be the person you mean to be!

Related: Why We Fear Our Own Power and How To Become “Powerful Beyond Measure”

6. You Know What It Means To Be Sad

This means that one of the most familiar feelings for you is the feeling of sadness. You understand sadness and you know how to overcome it.

So much so, you understand the importance of sadness in your life. You don’t think it is as bad as people make of it.

You even think that sadness is pertinent and important for your betterment and your life. It is often said that people who have understood the concept of sadness, have understood one of the most important aspects of life.

7. You Are Uncomfortable With The Concept Of Time

This means that the thought that you might not have enough time makes you feel extremely uncomfortable.

You keep thinking that you are running short of time because there is so much to do and so little time to do it.

So, maybe you have mastered certain concepts of life but one thing that you have not learned that well is the way you should deal with the entity of time.

8. Regret Is A Common Feeling For You

Yes. Because you have reached a certain point where you understand yourself. You have also understood that you did make mistakes in the past. You are aware that you should not have done certain things that you did.

This feeling makes you regret some events of the past. Don’t worry; this is all part of your evolution. It is all about realizing that we had been once wrong and we should not repeat the mistakes this time.

Accept your mistakes, if you want to become the person you mean to be.

10 Uncomfortable Signs You’re Becoming The Person You’re Meant To Be

9. You Miss The Ones You Love

As you journey through life, you begin to recognize the profound impact certain individuals have had on your existence.

With each passing day, you grow increasingly aware of the significance their presence held in shaping your experiences, prompting a poignant longing for them.

This bittersweet realization fills your heart, occasionally enveloping you in a sense of melancholy.

10. You Are Uncertain About Your Future

You are afraid of the future. This is because you have dreams and aspirations and you are scared that those might not come true.

In addition, there is a deep-seated apprehension within you about potential future losses and the accompanying pain. However, the most significant concern that lingers in your thoughts is the fear of not evolving into the person you envisioned yourself to be in the coming years.

This feeling gnaws you and makes you feel uncomfortable.

Related: 8 Types Of Negative Thinking That Can Destroy Your Peace Of Mind

So, these are some uncomfortable signs that prove that you are on the right path to being the person you mean to be. Carry on and tread with caution (but also pride; not everyone has been able to walk on this path).

What do you think? Are you on the way to becoming the person you were born to be? Let us know in the comments down below.

The Minds Journal Articles Volume -1  is Copyright Protected vide Regd.# L-103222/2021
Uncomfortable Sign pin
Uncomfortable Signs pin
10 Uncomfortable Signs YouE28099re Actually Becoming The Person YouE28099re Meant To Be2

— Share —

Published On:

Last updated on:

,
, , , , , , , , , ,

— About the Author —

Rayi Noormega

Rayi Noormega is a 22 year-old girl from Indonesia who is currently studying Psychology and just found out that her true passion is actually writing. She’s in love with midnight flights, city lights, and those long road trips until the dawn with non-stop deep conversations.

Responses

  1. Heather Hatfield Avatar
    Heather Hatfield

    I often feel lost. Unsure of how I got where I am. No knowledge on how to change. I’m not sure but this sounded like begin where you are. So I will

    Reply
  2. Sheila Avatar
    Sheila

    I’m at the end of my life and I don’t want to end without having learned the most valuable lesson of all. That is to love myself with full acceptance and fight as hard for me as I’ve fought for those I love.

    Reply
  3. Sheila Avatar
    Sheila

    Loving myself will be the biggest accomplishment I’ve ever made. It is foreign to me to care for myself as I have cared for those I love..
    So, yes, I’m very uncomfortable with this task because I wrestle with whether or not I deserve love.

    Reply
Leave A Comment

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

Up Next

How Delusional Confidence Can Help You Succeed (Even If You Doubt Yourself)

5 Reasons Why You Should Practice Delusional Confidence

Society tells us to be humble, to wait our turn, to only claim what we can prove. But what if the secret to success isn’t waiting for proof—it’s acting like you already have it?

Some of the most successful people in history weren’t necessarily the smartest, the most talented, or the best prepared. They were the ones who refused to entertain doubt. They acted as if their success was inevitable—until it was.

Delusional confidence is not about arrogance or ignorance; it’s about choosing belief over fear, faith over hesitation. It’s about backing yourself so hard that the universe has no choice but to meet you halfway.

Up Next

A Gentle Guide To Spring Cleaning Every Part Of Your Life

Spring Clean Your Life in 8 Simple Steps!

If you’ve been feeling stuck, unmotivated, or just a little off, you’re not alone. The start of the year can be tough, and sometimes, it feels like we’re just going through the motions. But with spring finally here, it’s the perfect opportunity to reset, refresh, and spring clean your life—not just your home, but your mind, habits, and daily routine.

Think of it as a fresh start, a chance to let go of what’s been weighing you down and make space for new energy and motivation. Whether it’s decluttering your space, breaking free from negative habits, or simply creating more time for yourself, a little spring cleaning can go a long way.

Here are some things you can do over the next few weeks to glow up and snap out of the funk.

Up Next

The ‘Grass Is Greener’ Syndrome: Why You Always Want More (But Never Feel Satisfied)

5 Toxic Signs Of Grass Is Greener Syndrome: Do You Relate?

Do you ever feel like no matter what you have, something better is always out there? That nagging feeling that your relationship, job, or life in general could be more exciting, or just… better? If so, you might be dealing with the Grass is Greener Syndrome.

It’s that restless voice in your head that constantly wonders if you made the wrong choice. You scroll through social media and see people seemingly living their best lives, traveling to exotic destinations, landing dream jobs, or being in picture-perfect relationships. 

And suddenly, what you have feels dull in comparison. This constant chase for something “better” can be exhausting and, more importantly, prevent you from appreciating the present moment.

Let’s learn more about it if you find yourself getting stuck in the ‘Grass is Gr

Up Next

5 Key Mindset Shifts To Make Your Dreams Come True

5 Powerful Mindset Shifts That Will Make Your Dream Life a Reality

Mindset shifts are the key to manifesting your dream life.

Every year, I set goals and made vision boards, convinced that this time, things would change. But by the end of the year, nothing had moved. It felt like I was stuck in the same place, no matter how hard I tried.

Eventually, I realized the problem wasn’t my goals—it was my mindset. I had limiting beliefs running the show, quietly holding me back from everything I wanted. My thoughts were filled with self-doubt, and deep down, I didn’t truly believe I could have the life I was dreaming of.

So, I made a change. I started paying attention to my thoughts and replacing negative ones with self-affirming beliefs. I stopped questioning if I was “good enough” or if my dreams were “too big.” Instead, I started acting as if

Up Next

15 Profound Universal Truths To Understand The Human Condition

15 Profound Universal Truths to Understand the Human Condition

Have you ever noticed how some truths about life just hit different? These universal truths about the human condition are the kind that stick with you long after you’ve heard them.

KEY POINTS

Well-written memoirs often share universal truths that connect with readers on a deeper level.

Universal truths are many, and each of us can have our own unique set.

Learning about others’ universal truths can help you find our own way.

In my memoir writing workshops, I always emphasize the importance of each story having a universal truth. While many are w

Up Next

Are You Too Non Confrontational? Here’s How It’s Sabotaging Your Life

Is Being Non Confrontational A Bad Thing? 5 Clear Reasons

Are you the type of person who stays silent even when something bothers you, just to keep the peace? If so, you might consider yourself as a non confrontational personality. But what if I told you that this trait might be doing you harm, more than helping you?

While avoiding confrontation might seem like the best way to maintain peace in relationships and workplaces, it often comes at a high cost. Let’s dive into why being non confrontational is affecting you and how you can strike a balance between peacekeeping and standing up for yourself.

Up Next

7 Surprising Benefits Of Touching Grass (You’ll Want To Do It Daily!)

7 Cool Benefits Of Touching Grass: (You Should Try It!)

Ever heard someone say, “Go touch some grass”? It’s an internet slang often thrown around as an insult, telling people to log off and reconnect with reality. But behind the sarcasm, there’s actual wisdom in those words. So, let us explore the real benefits of touching grass.

We spend hours glued to screens, scrolling or doom scrolling through social media, binge-watching shows, or getting lost in heated online debates. Spending too much time online can leave you feeling disconnected, drained, and overwhelmed.

The constant flood of

— Follow Us —