1. YOU CAN’T SEE THINGS WITH YOUR PARTNER’S EYES BECAUSE YOU’RE DIFFERENT FROM HIM
You and your partner are different, both genetically, physiologically, psychologically and personally. In spite of the differences, you should try to adapt to each other’s ways of thinking and acting.
2. LOVE IS NOT THE SAME AS FALLING IN LOVE
Most people cannot judge the success of their relationship because they confuse the feeling of falling in love. The feeling of love is the first stage of love, after which the wild passion becomes inevitably a deep and sustainable commitment – which is also exciting and rewarding, but not always so drastic.
3. IN A GOOD RELATIONSHIP, THE PARTNERS ACCEPT EACH OTHER’S DIFFERENT VIEWS
There are things that you and your partner disagree with, and you will always be. So you just have to accept that you can disagree on some things. Even if you can’t really solve the problem, you can still decide on the matter at the emotional level.
4. PARTNERS DO NOT NECESSARILY NEED JOINT ACTIVITIES
It is good if you have a nice hobby, but you do not have to buy one by force to make your relationship more satisfying. You certainly have a lot in common, which you may not even think of. Let’s do it together and live your everyday life together.
5. THE DISPUTES BELONG TO A GOOD RELATIONSHIP
A dispute in a relationship is not as good as a bad thing, if the quarrel is done according to agreed rules. Do not worry about how often you argue, as it is not a determining factor in the stability and quality of your relationship. The quarrel can improve the quality and sustainability of the relationship – while the failures of the relationships are quite often related to suppressing contradictions and banning them.
6. YOU CAN’T SAY ANYTHING TO YOUR PARTNER
In a relationship, it is crucial to think about something worthwhile to say aloud. A hit on the worst pain may have an irreversible effect on the relationship. If you suspect that what you say can damage your partner’s confidence in you, then it’s best to think very carefully.
7. GOOD SEX LIFE IS ONE OF THE CORNERSTONES OF THE RELATIONSHIP
In most situations, lovemaking is a symbol of mutual giving, receiving, and trust. When you love, you are the most sensitive and let your partner come near you. There must be chemistry between you, making you feel more like friends – you are partners.
8. IN A PERFECT RELATIONSHIP, BOTH PARTNERS HAVE A SHORTCOMING
It is often thought that if a feature in a person differs significantly from a mainstream, it must be bad for a partner. If your partner’s quirkies do not offend you or harm you, you can try to influence them or you can learn to live with them.
9. A PERFECT RELATIONSHIP CAN BE ACHIEVED IN MANY WAYS
There is no single right way to live in a relationship. There are also different ways to quarrel and solve problems. There are many ways to show support and affection. Most importantly, you will find your own and working habit to be together. Functionality means you get to your desired results with your own actions or omissions.
10. CHANGING YOUR RELATIONSHIP STARTS WITH YOU
Love does not mean finding a person who makes the rest of the life happy. Have you ever wondered if you could change your partner’s thinking, feelings, and behavior, would your relationship be much better? The most important person you can influence is yourself. You have to find your own worth and self-worth. You cannot control your partner and it is not your partner’s thing to make your life better – you are responsible for yourself.