Divine Timing Rule #4: Impatience calls for exploration
When we get impatient, it is due to some underlying fear or anxiety. Instead of getting carried by our impatience, it is better to get to the underlying cause of our fear.
- Are we not in alignment with our true selves?
- Are we falling under societal pressure?
- Do we have fear of rejection and abandonment?
- Is our inner child crying for our love and attention?
- Are we living our life to our highest potential or are we playing small?
Sometimes the Universe gives us partners to trigger our wounds and fears so that we can come face to face with them and heal ourselves. When we face our fears, we start the alchemical process of transformation and set the stage for the right person to enter into our life.
The paradox is that the right person will come into your life when you know how to be completely happy and fulfilled on your own. When you shed all negativities and toxic behaviors that hold you back from evolving. When you do not try to force anything and let things unfold organically. When you have done the inner work and healing when you don’t need anyone else to complete you or make you happy.
“The capacity to be alone is the capacity to love. It may look paradoxical to you, but it’s not. It is an existential truth: only those people who are capable of being alone are capable of love, of sharing, of going into the deepest core of another person–without possessing the other, without becoming dependent on the other, without reducing the other to a thing, and without becoming addicted to the other. They allow the other absolute freedom because they know that if the other leaves, they will be as happy as they are now. Their happiness cannot be taken by the other, because it is not given by the other.” – Osho