Being impatient and throwing tantrums or issuing ultimatums is just going to cause the other people leave and end the relationship.
If you want to can set clear boundaries and communicate them to your partner but you cannot force them into doing things on your timeline.
If you follow this universal rule, the wrong people who are not in alignment with your life will leave and the right people who are in alignment with your soul purpose will enter into your life.
Divine Timing Rule #4: Impatience calls for exploration
When we get impatient, it is due to some underlying fear or anxiety. Instead of getting carried by our impatience, it is better to get to the underlying cause of our fear.
- Are we not in alignment with our true selves?
- Are we falling under societal pressure?
- Do we have fear of rejection and abandonment?
- Is our inner child crying for our love and attention?
- Are we living our life to our highest potential or are we playing small?
Sometimes Universe gives us partners to trigger our wounds and fears so that we can come face to face with them and heal ourselves.
When we face our fears, we start the alchemical process of transformation and set the stage for the right person to enter into our life.
The paradox is that the right person will come into your life when you know how to be completely happy and fulfilled on your own.
When you shed all negativities and toxic behaviors that hold you back from evolving.
When you do not try to force anything and let things unfold organically.
When you have done the inner work and healing, when you don’t need any one else to complete you or make you happy.
“The capacity to be alone is the capacity to love. It may look paradoxical to you, but it’s not. It is an existential truth: only those people who are capable of being alone are capable of love, of sharing, of going into the deepest core of another person–without possessing the other, without becoming dependent on the other, without reducing the other to a thing, and without becoming addicted to the other. They allow the other absolute freedom because they know that if the other leaves, they will be as happy as they are now. Their happiness cannot be taken by the other, because it is not given by the other.” -Osho
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