We are sure you’ve heard the familiar saying “opposites attract” many times growing up. For some of us this phrase may ring true, while others may find chaos in communicating with an opposite personality. Have you ever wondered why you’re attracted to someone or something you think may never work. Read on to find your opposite match and your inevitable attraction and interaction in a relationship.
The 6 Totally Opposite Zodiac Couples
Read on to find a detail analysis on how each of these couples interact in a relationship.
How and Why Opposites Attract In Relationships
1. The Aries and Libra Couple
Aries is a fire sign, Libra is an air sign, and fire needs air to burn. Aries people are blunt and to the point, making swift decisions, which may not be very well thought out. Libra is ruled by Venus, so they have a harmonious and soothing nature. Since the scales symbolize Libra though, it can take them forever to make up their minds. They think about every little thing from every point of view.
Librans can charm you so easily that you may not even realize what you are agreeing to! They make great lawyers, because they can argue a point for hours and wrap anyone around their little finger. This can make an Aries person crazy. Another possible area of disagreement is that when an Aries person wants something, it can sound like a demand. Are they telling or asking? This attitude can seem rude, pushy, and impulsive. But when these two are under each other’s spell, the Aries will offer that big, open smile, and the Libran will be won over. When an Aries person gets angry, it’s over fast, like a thunderstorm. They are very forgiving.
Aries people understand that Libran decisions are fair and logical, and respect that. Librans hear the word “decision” and they get nervous. Aries just dives in, thinks fast, then handles the situation. Libra wants to play it safe, but that can get boring. So Librans admire the Aries style of just doing what they think should be done and forgetting about it. Since Aries is the fire sign, one would probably think they have the most dangerous temper, right? Well, not really. Think about what air does, as in tornadoes, hurricanes or cyclones. Most people think Venus ruled Librans are always sweet and calm. And most of the time, they are. Just make sure you do not push them too far. You do not want those scales to tip!Both Aries and Libra Want To Be The Leader
Another issue here is that both Aries and Libra are cardinal signs of leadership, meaning they both want their own way. Librans just want to win to achieve justice and peace. Aries wants to win just to prove they are right. They have a bit of an ego to protect. Most partnerships of Aries and Libra will be a great experience for both. What could be better than having an affair with the one who has all the traits you lack? Libras are free thinkers and act on their thoughts, which will make the Aries person feel more confident than they are (they lack confidence, but I didn’t tell you that).
Libran kindness and gentleness will bring out the best in an Aries. The Aries person is more balanced and tolerant when with a Libra person, because their individuality is respected. The Libran may find that they are making more firm decisions, and inspired into higher achievements on a personal level when their Aries love is around. The Aries Ram will try to understand that the Libra needs to conserve energy to maintain balance, they aren’t just lazy. Most people are not as energetic as an Aries, with that Mars rulership.
If the Aries truly tries to see both sides of a disagreement, the Libra will respond with affection and encouragement. A Libra does not like to be crabby or argumentative, but Aries must learn to fight fair. Once the Aries decides not to be unreasonable in their expectations, they will be rewarded with that famous Libra dimple. The Libran is usually right anyway, and Aries can never carry a grudge for long. What argument?
2. The Taurus and Scorpio Couple
Just like all opposites, Taurus and Scorpio both sense that the other has the missing qualities that would make each feel complete and whole. However, both of these signs are fixed signs, and that means stubborn, my friend.
Scorpios are as sexy, secretive and psychic as they are rumored to be, but they hide that all very well when they want. They can be snakes if they act on their lower instincts, or eagles if they soar to their highest. They are boiling cauldrons of emotion, and that can be scary. Scorpios are very sentimental, something that shocks people once they catch on to it. They really know how to hide behind whichever façade they are using, and you will know them for years before you see the sentimentality.